i like this guy A LOT.. i've met him years ago and could never continue a relationship with him cause he spoke dirty to me and i was horrified LOL. i seriously can't handle it at all, i dont know why. i want gentleness and charm, haha. oh and i still like him and am afraid of the sex! even though hes really good. FEH.
the thing that gets most people about talking dirty is that they find it somewhat degrading. Like you only talk dirty to hookers and one night stands. You have to start small with that, and of course communication is really important. Did you ever tell him that it made you uncomfortable? The MOST important thing in sex [after being comfortable with yourself of course] is being comfortable enough with your partner to communicate everything. maybe instead of him talking dirty to you he can tell you what a beautiful woman you are. then in a few months you can be a naughty beautiful woman, and so on and so forth :P
thats exactly the problem. I felt like a cheap whore! and i do believe he probably look at me that way even though he says otherwise, i dont know!.. we still talk all the time and he still likes me.. but i have told him how i felt and he understands, im still scared to sleep with him again though. i am just super conservative in bed i guess and have NEVER had a guy talk like that to me before!!! i was totally surprised..
he does the beautiful woman thing to.. he gives me toooons of compliments.. its just the naughty ones that totally freak me out.. oh well we'll see.
do you want to stay conservative in bed or do you wish you could branch out? do you get bored?
also, i mean- worse case scenario- you are in an awkward sexual encounter. He might be someone good to practice on ya know? You'd be surprised how fulfilling it is once you discover what your kink is. It took me LOTS of weird sex to figure it out. :D
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i like this guy A LOT.. i've met him years ago and could never continue a relationship with him cause he spoke dirty to me and i was horrified LOL. i seriously can't handle it at all, i dont know why. i want gentleness and charm, haha. oh and i still like him and am afraid of the sex! even though hes really good. FEH.
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maybe instead of him talking dirty to you he can tell you what a beautiful woman you are. then in a few months you can be a naughty beautiful woman, and so on and so forth :P
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he does the beautiful woman thing to.. he gives me toooons of compliments.. its just the naughty ones that totally freak me out.. oh well we'll see.
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also, i mean- worse case scenario- you are in an awkward sexual encounter. He might be someone good to practice on ya know?
You'd be surprised how fulfilling it is once you discover what your kink is. It took me LOTS of weird sex to figure it out. :D
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