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If you know me and you read this, then you should know I abhor when people do not reply to my invitations. If it's short notice and you can't go, just tell me that. If you don't like me and don't want to go, just tell me that. But please just don't leave me hanging on a reply because I have to constantly keep you in the back of my head, and constantly hound you about it. Now maybe the thought of me thinking about you constantly might make you feel special, but it will soon form into a negative thought the longer it stays.
I understand that people are busy, that I ask things short notice, and that I don't really deserve any real reason for things. But a simple yes or a no goes a long way. I love planning sometimes because I like the feeling of accomplishment having brung people together, having them enjoy their time, and hopefully make some really fond memories. But planning is no walk in the park, and it can sometimes be so much that I myself can't even enjoy my time. I don't mind that part, but just telling me earlier would really cut down the stress of planning because now I feel really deterred from planning my time with people. And I realize a lot of people I know don't take the initiative to do anything so I have to or end up not seeing them for a long, long time. So if you're one of those people, then I guess I won't be seeing you for a while because I'm tired of the effort I constantly make.
What's the point anymore?
I understand that people are busy, that I ask things short notice, and that I don't really deserve any real reason for things. But a simple yes or a no goes a long way. I love planning sometimes because I like the feeling of accomplishment having brung people together, having them enjoy their time, and hopefully make some really fond memories. But planning is no walk in the park, and it can sometimes be so much that I myself can't even enjoy my time. I don't mind that part, but just telling me earlier would really cut down the stress of planning because now I feel really deterred from planning my time with people. And I realize a lot of people I know don't take the initiative to do anything so I have to or end up not seeing them for a long, long time. So if you're one of those people, then I guess I won't be seeing you for a while because I'm tired of the effort I constantly make.
What's the point anymore?