To my friend
I guess he's getting a lot of flack from his fam/friends about you, from what I'm reading. I don't give a flying fuck about him, in all honesty. Who I care about is you, and I suspect you're feeling the pressure too.
The only thing I have to say on the matter is this; go for what you want. All out. I don't like to play the age card, but the six years between 22 and 28 have taught me a lot. A lot of those black and white lines that seem so sharp and unrelenting are really blurred into shades of grey, and the easy answer, or sometimes even the smart answer, isn't always the right one.
You just have to follow your gut. And if you're gut is screaming "(his name) (his name) (his name)" then it doesn't matter what any of us think. Play it smart - I'm not suggesting you jump off a cliff and fuck your life and everyone else who loves you - but play it for what you want.
In the end it's the things we didn't take chances on that we regret. And love, whatever it's form, whether it lasts for a minute or for an eternity, is never, ever, ever a mistake.
The only thing I have to say on the matter is this; go for what you want. All out. I don't like to play the age card, but the six years between 22 and 28 have taught me a lot. A lot of those black and white lines that seem so sharp and unrelenting are really blurred into shades of grey, and the easy answer, or sometimes even the smart answer, isn't always the right one.
You just have to follow your gut. And if you're gut is screaming "(his name) (his name) (his name)" then it doesn't matter what any of us think. Play it smart - I'm not suggesting you jump off a cliff and fuck your life and everyone else who loves you - but play it for what you want.
In the end it's the things we didn't take chances on that we regret. And love, whatever it's form, whether it lasts for a minute or for an eternity, is never, ever, ever a mistake.