Nov 08, 2008 22:21
So it seems like David has finally deceided(sp?) to act like A father. Albeit long distance. He messaged me on Valik's birthday (no way he really remembered) to wish Valik A happy bday. Instead of description i'll be lazy. Here:
hey tiffany
Body:
just wanted to say happy birthday to valik, cant believe its been 8 yrs. hes still just a little baby in my mind. how is everything? how is he doing in school? my sis and mom really want to see him sometime. ill be in ohio like late dec early jan or as soon as i get off my ass and get tickets, rachel is spliting the cost w me to come out for a week. dose valik know or ever ask about me? i hope i get to know him someday, i never planed on finding a life so far away but i did andeveryday i live the consiquences of action and choice. have a good day and take care. if you ever want to call 5415059154.
later
Innocent enough, right? And tonight at Valik's party he called Racheal (David's sister). She told him she was at Valik's party and she told me about that. I guess he wanted to talk to Valik but she didn't think I would be ok with that. I said it was ok and they spoke for like 5 minutes. So later on tonight when we got home Valik said something like Robbie was his dad for now. And his real dad will be here soon to visit.
Now this really hurt Robbie in Away I could never imagine. How can I explain all this to Valik without it looking like i'm trying to turn him against David? I told him David help make him but it takes A lot more than that to be A father. Also, I did pass on Davids bday wishes.
Me: Do you know who David is?
V: Yes, isn't he my father?
Me: Yes
V: I don't know him i've never seen his face.
Then I went on to explain how yes he has seen his he is just too young to remember.
Here i've been minding my own business with me family and he comes traipsing in whenever he feels like it. Wtf? I'm trying not to be pissed at him but i'm horribly upset that Robbie's been hurt. I knew something like this would happen someday but I thought Valik would be A teenager.
And for some reason Mary (Davids mom) told me she told him he should help me out (ya know money stuff) and he said something about never seeing him or not knowing him. I can't remember which because it was really loud A Chuck E. Cheese. I don't need his damn money. And regardless if He's living "the consiquences of action and choice" should he send something? Whatever. My tirade is over for now. I guess i'll see how it all works out if he actually visits.