hey there delilah
it's so sad. my best friend is so slurred in the vision with this guy.
he's not ready to commit. but she's so in love.
and she's doing everything she can to "keep him" if you will.
and tonight i pointed out how she makes excuses for him. like "oh he doesn't want to commit but i'm ...." yea. it's the same every time. she said last week that she was done with him....but she's not. she's trying to convince her self of something else that's not there.
i feel like a bad friend if i don't say something. so i do. and she just flipped the fuck out and told me to get out of her room....
i don't even know what to do. i care about this girl. and she needs to make her own mistakes...but she's been mistaking this boy for awhile. i don't know.
i'm intervening. and yea. whatever happens. happens.
i hate stupid shit that our generations is going through.
what's so bad with having a significant other. no one ever wants to have a boyfriend/girlfriend anyomore because they're waiting for something else. i feel as if there are so many guys that i've dated/dating that are so insecure about themselves that they don't want to be in something. they're waiting for something spectacular. but that doesn't come over night. work on it. find someone that you like, not that you can't live without, because that's where you'll falter.
don't set yourself up for disapointment. but know that it's there.
relationships aren't that complicated. we're just making them that way these days....
ps "hey there deliliah is a song i could listen to 100 times in a row.
"oh..it's what you do to me."
he's not ready to commit. but she's so in love.
and she's doing everything she can to "keep him" if you will.
and tonight i pointed out how she makes excuses for him. like "oh he doesn't want to commit but i'm ...." yea. it's the same every time. she said last week that she was done with him....but she's not. she's trying to convince her self of something else that's not there.
i feel like a bad friend if i don't say something. so i do. and she just flipped the fuck out and told me to get out of her room....
i don't even know what to do. i care about this girl. and she needs to make her own mistakes...but she's been mistaking this boy for awhile. i don't know.
i'm intervening. and yea. whatever happens. happens.
i hate stupid shit that our generations is going through.
what's so bad with having a significant other. no one ever wants to have a boyfriend/girlfriend anyomore because they're waiting for something else. i feel as if there are so many guys that i've dated/dating that are so insecure about themselves that they don't want to be in something. they're waiting for something spectacular. but that doesn't come over night. work on it. find someone that you like, not that you can't live without, because that's where you'll falter.
don't set yourself up for disapointment. but know that it's there.
relationships aren't that complicated. we're just making them that way these days....
ps "hey there deliliah is a song i could listen to 100 times in a row.
"oh..it's what you do to me."