Guys in a relationship - more attractive?
This is a question for all you girls out there. And it's really baffling me.
It seemed to happen to me a couple of times. When I was single, I had a rather hard time hitting on girls. In a year, I managed to do something with three girls, and that's about it.
Ever since I got a girlfriend, suddenly situation seems to have reversed. I've had several girls hit on me, which was like totally rare previously. I've even had a few who approached me openly and wanted to sleep with me.
I'd be lying if I said I didn't enjoy the attention, however, this is something that also got me pissed in a way... Why do you come to me now? Where were you X months ago?
I know that there's a general feminist consensus "Men are pigs", but what is it in a guy who's in a happy relationship that attracts girls?
It might be confidence and happyness. I am happy now, while I was a wreck when I was single (mentally and emotionally), but I look the same, and I always was a nice guy.
Answer if you can, this has been bothering me for quite a while :)
It seemed to happen to me a couple of times. When I was single, I had a rather hard time hitting on girls. In a year, I managed to do something with three girls, and that's about it.
Ever since I got a girlfriend, suddenly situation seems to have reversed. I've had several girls hit on me, which was like totally rare previously. I've even had a few who approached me openly and wanted to sleep with me.
I'd be lying if I said I didn't enjoy the attention, however, this is something that also got me pissed in a way... Why do you come to me now? Where were you X months ago?
I know that there's a general feminist consensus "Men are pigs", but what is it in a guy who's in a happy relationship that attracts girls?
It might be confidence and happyness. I am happy now, while I was a wreck when I was single (mentally and emotionally), but I look the same, and I always was a nice guy.
Answer if you can, this has been bothering me for quite a while :)