Dating, relationships, and women
This is something I post on MySpace but decided to put it here too...
So nothing good was on tv tonight and I have to pick my brother up from the airport at 9:00am tomorrow so I decided to catch up on sleep tonight and I turned it on to WIBC 1070AM in here in Indianapolis hoping to hear some post game Colts coverage... well no Colts coverage but instead there is some show about dating and relationships.
For anyone that knows me, they know I have the worst luck with relationships, or dating. Some of my friends claim I sabatoge myself becuase I over think everything. My brothers claim my problem is that my standards are too high. I think my biggest problem is that I tend to only like girls who don't like me. Well that isn't true, my problem is that I try too hard.
Like last night there was this girl who was gorgeous and I spent most of the night trying to figure out if she was with another guy instead of taking the courage and just go up to her and talk to her. I even at one point gave her a chair when the opportunity presented itself but I still didn't go up and talk to her. Sounds stupid doesn't it.
Anyways back to this show... they are talking about New Years resolutions and one of the things they brough up is looking desperate. I think I have fallen into this trap and now I don't know how to get out of it. I don't want to look desperate but I think that is how I come off.
The whole system of arranged marriages is looking a lot better each day. Here I am 30 years old and under pressure to find a wife or else (and those of you who are Orthodox should know what that means).
So it comes down to this, I have a lot of friends who are girls, and all the married ones think that I am such a great catch but they never have anyone to suggest for me and I just am not attracted to most of my single female friends and the ones I do develop attractions to just want to be friends with me. So what is my problem? What am I doing wrong?
All I want to do is fall in love and live happily ever after, is that too much to ask for?
So nothing good was on tv tonight and I have to pick my brother up from the airport at 9:00am tomorrow so I decided to catch up on sleep tonight and I turned it on to WIBC 1070AM in here in Indianapolis hoping to hear some post game Colts coverage... well no Colts coverage but instead there is some show about dating and relationships.
For anyone that knows me, they know I have the worst luck with relationships, or dating. Some of my friends claim I sabatoge myself becuase I over think everything. My brothers claim my problem is that my standards are too high. I think my biggest problem is that I tend to only like girls who don't like me. Well that isn't true, my problem is that I try too hard.
Like last night there was this girl who was gorgeous and I spent most of the night trying to figure out if she was with another guy instead of taking the courage and just go up to her and talk to her. I even at one point gave her a chair when the opportunity presented itself but I still didn't go up and talk to her. Sounds stupid doesn't it.
Anyways back to this show... they are talking about New Years resolutions and one of the things they brough up is looking desperate. I think I have fallen into this trap and now I don't know how to get out of it. I don't want to look desperate but I think that is how I come off.
The whole system of arranged marriages is looking a lot better each day. Here I am 30 years old and under pressure to find a wife or else (and those of you who are Orthodox should know what that means).
So it comes down to this, I have a lot of friends who are girls, and all the married ones think that I am such a great catch but they never have anyone to suggest for me and I just am not attracted to most of my single female friends and the ones I do develop attractions to just want to be friends with me. So what is my problem? What am I doing wrong?
All I want to do is fall in love and live happily ever after, is that too much to ask for?