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So I just found out that 'starsandstraps' has the same birthday as me. I barely know him IRL, but still it's pretty weird.
Anyway it reminded me, I haven't met someone with the exact same birthday since I was in first grade. Her name was Brittany something and I had a huge crush on her. Probably only because she had the same birthday. Once this stupid kid told on us for kissing behind this cabinet door, so I got in a bunch of trouble. What sucks even worse is that we didn't even kiss! We were too chicken.
That was one of two times I can recall at the moment, that I got in a shit load of trouble for kissing some girl as a little kid. Neither time was by my parents. I don't get it. Why should a little kid be made to feel so terrible for exploring such a confusing subject? And seriously, who the fuck are you to make that choice for someone else's kid?!
This society needs to take action in correcting the way it makes us feel about our natural, sexual impulses, from the beginning. It carries on into adulthood and becomes problematic for many then, as well. My parents never had the birds and bees talk with me. The first time I talked to either of my parents about sex was on the ride home from my girlfriends house, where my mom had just dropped her off because she walked in on me going down on her. I ended up having a discussion on morality and how it is relative to each individual. I made her feel pretty bad because I pointed out that I stand by my morals better than I know she stands by hers. Anyway, that was probably the most confident I've ever been in standing up for my sexuality. Otherwise I've mostly been ashamed of it, like a large portion of others in our society.
Actually, if I wasn't in a relationship right now I'd probably be a total closet slut.
Anyway it reminded me, I haven't met someone with the exact same birthday since I was in first grade. Her name was Brittany something and I had a huge crush on her. Probably only because she had the same birthday. Once this stupid kid told on us for kissing behind this cabinet door, so I got in a bunch of trouble. What sucks even worse is that we didn't even kiss! We were too chicken.
That was one of two times I can recall at the moment, that I got in a shit load of trouble for kissing some girl as a little kid. Neither time was by my parents. I don't get it. Why should a little kid be made to feel so terrible for exploring such a confusing subject? And seriously, who the fuck are you to make that choice for someone else's kid?!
This society needs to take action in correcting the way it makes us feel about our natural, sexual impulses, from the beginning. It carries on into adulthood and becomes problematic for many then, as well. My parents never had the birds and bees talk with me. The first time I talked to either of my parents about sex was on the ride home from my girlfriends house, where my mom had just dropped her off because she walked in on me going down on her. I ended up having a discussion on morality and how it is relative to each individual. I made her feel pretty bad because I pointed out that I stand by my morals better than I know she stands by hers. Anyway, that was probably the most confident I've ever been in standing up for my sexuality. Otherwise I've mostly been ashamed of it, like a large portion of others in our society.
Actually, if I wasn't in a relationship right now I'd probably be a total closet slut.