It's taken for granted among most of us voyeurs who analyze the psychology of the Beatles that John Lennon liked to be dominated by strong women. Mimi, Yoko...Many people, both those who knew John personally and chose who only know him by reputation, have said this.
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Another thing that sometimes gets overlooked when people discuss John's desire to be is his relationship with Paul. Yoko was a replacement for Cynthia, but she was even moreso a replacement for Paul. I don't think Paul was as dominant with John as Yoko was - the fact that Paul is two years younger and they were still teenagers when they met may have been a factor in that. But there were times in their relationship when Paul was very dominant, especially the post-touring pre-Yoko period.
And again with the taking things John said with a grain of salt, but I still find a couple quotes from Lennon Remembers interesting in terms of how he related to Paul:
Paul made an attempt to carry on as if Brian hadn't died by saying, "Now, now, boys, we're going to make a ( ... )
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Hah! Yeah, that may be a factor. I have seen it from lots of fans and commentators who are willing to acknowledge that John physically abused someone...and then they turn around and talk about how John liked to be dominated by strong women. "Lennon liked to be dominated by strong women! He beat his first wife, and then he left her for a strong woman who was weird and dominated him!" That seems like the narrative I've encountered a lot, and it's got a bit of cognitive dissonance. Somehow even John's abusiveness towards women isn't proof that he liked dominating them...or that part isn't worth noting.
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