Sep 22, 2005 01:59
Everyone should try and think about how much of what they do is driven by insecurities.
Sometimes people get in relationships where one person is in control, and alot of times the person who is in control needs to be in control because they're afraid of what would happen if they lost control, or because they feel helpless or because people have controlled them.
Alot of times girls get out of relationships like that and they don't know how to do anything but be controlled, and its easier for them to just give up, and they embrace Thanatos.
Sometimes they're strong, and they hate the ones who were in control, but they don't know that some boys are just worried, subconsciously, and you can hate as hard as you want to, and it won't change that.
Everyone needs to know that the solution isn't for the people who were controlled to try to be in control, because the problem isn't who's in control, the problem is that anyone is in control, and when people have sex it should be equal, and we shouldn't worry, because we're in love.