I'd hate to give up this chance...themartyrinmeApril 7 2005, 08:01:26 UTC
dear ash, As you prob. already know there just is not much to say when it comes to me and love. This is a word that is easily definable to someone like me but it exists only in small parts. I define love as caring about someone more then you care about yourself. To this end i love a lot of people but its never said. I care about all my friends and i care very deeply for my family, these are the people i love. But when it comes to sharing my heart with a woman such words do not exist. Just to show you what i mean i'll tell you what i got out of that poem of amy's:
"nobody knows what love is anymore is just some loose term that everyone uses"
Amy is being bitter about something. This is more a statement rather words from the heart. It is stressing the failure of love in her life and her misunderstanding of its use.
"the term i love you is so sbused no one really cares anymore"
She is right on the money here. No one really cares is absolutely true. You are not a unique individual, we are not like snowflakes, we are the all singing all dancing crap of the world.
"when people cry you just smile bigger when people hurt you just laugh louder"
They say it is not until we have lost everything are we free to do anything...i guess this just makes me a far more powerful person in the idea that i am free in almost everyway others are not. Other people's pain is nothing to scoff at, but our own insecurities makes us so much more vulnerable to attack from others because most people don't even understand themselves let alone others, hence the reason for name calling and bashing. This statement just is the completeness of truth in reality: If someone is crying or is hurt it is their fault for being in the situation getting hurt and getting their heart involved...I need not say anymore.
"but when no one loves at all anymore will you cry and feel ashamed"
Get it through your head...You are alone...everyone hates you and few people care for you. You are not the contents of your wallet, you are not the position you hold at work, you are not your fucking cloths. Give in to desire and free yourself from that which holds you back...
"will you realize it wasn't a game when no one cares anymore will you hurt and have no one to talk to will you cry the next time someone says i love you"
These are just rhetorical question that ask you to look upon yourself. Grab the reins of your own life and quit squabbling for scraps off the love table.
Slowly but surely your letting yourself become...Tyler Durden...
As you prob. already know there just is not much to say when it comes to me and love. This is a word that is easily definable to someone like me but it exists only in small parts. I define love as caring about someone more then you care about yourself. To this end i love a lot of people but its never said. I care about all my friends and i care very deeply for my family, these are the people i love. But when it comes to sharing my heart with a woman such words do not exist. Just to show you what i mean i'll tell you what i got out of that poem of amy's:
"nobody knows what love is anymore
is just some loose term that everyone uses"
Amy is being bitter about something. This is more a statement rather words from the heart. It is stressing the failure of love in her life and her misunderstanding of its use.
"the term i love you is so sbused
no one really cares anymore"
She is right on the money here. No one really cares is absolutely true. You are not a unique individual, we are not like snowflakes, we are the all singing all dancing crap of the world.
"when people cry you just smile bigger
when people hurt you just laugh louder"
They say it is not until we have lost everything are we free to do anything...i guess this just makes me a far more powerful person in the idea that i am free in almost everyway others are not. Other people's pain is nothing to scoff at, but our own insecurities makes us so much more vulnerable to attack from others because most people don't even understand themselves let alone others, hence the reason for name calling and bashing. This statement just is the completeness of truth in reality: If someone is crying or is hurt it is their fault for being in the situation getting hurt and getting their heart involved...I need not say anymore.
"but when no one loves at all anymore
will you cry and feel ashamed"
Get it through your head...You are alone...everyone hates you and few people care for you. You are not the contents of your wallet, you are not the position you hold at work, you are not your fucking cloths. Give in to desire and free yourself from that which holds you back...
"will you realize it wasn't a game
when no one cares anymore
will you hurt and have no one to talk to
will you cry the next time someone says i love you"
These are just rhetorical question that ask you to look upon yourself. Grab the reins of your own life and quit squabbling for scraps off the love table.
Slowly but surely your letting yourself become...Tyler Durden...
~Shane B.
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we are talking about romantic love, not friendships and family...
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