Aug 10, 2010 01:03
If you use a lull in a relationship situation to rest yourself and refresh your awareness, you will be strengthened.
This provides a challenge to learn to use down time productively. Creativity requires leisure. There may be no available energy for forward progress in a relationship situation at this time anyway, so rest and restore yourself. Rather than waste time during such an opportunity, use it for contemplative relaxation or meditation.
Don't worry about how to orchestrate things just yet. Instead, let go and surrender yourself to the sights, sounds, and realities of the situation as it is. This will put you in a more favorable position when the time for action arrives.
I'm quitting women, and quitting drinking for the next two months. It's not really about quitting, it's about dedicating myself to things i really want to do that take second place to women and drinking.
I'm gonna go to work, and be present while i'm there.
i'm gonna come home and be busy while i'm here working on music and plants and keeping myself in order.
i'm gonna eat fucking healthy.
i'm running a fucking marathon, in two months and 4 hours.
i'm gonna get a six pack if it kills me(maybe).
these next two months are gonna be transformative, i resolved a lot of things tonight. i'm excited to move on to this phase of my life.
i'm really excited to be single, and dedicated to myself.
i might still drink with my friends, on the right days....maybe not?