Jun 21, 2006 12:41
Jen and I were standing on the street corner, kissing and saying goodbye and she crosses part way across the srteet and some random guy passes her in his SUV and yells something I didn't quite catch. She yells Fuck You and flips him off and I catch what he says next:
"... Pussy eating Hoe"
and then she tosses her can of pop in his direction and it hits his bumper as he drives away. And she keeps walking and I am stunned.
I am sick of it. SICK OF IT. If I look like a girl, myself and my girlfriend get harrased and called "pussy eating hoes." If I look like a boy and you can't really tell what the fuck I am, I'm a freak to be avoided and disdained.
Who does that shit anymore? When have you ever driven by a random person who did nothing to you and yelled terrible things at them?
I don't ever deal with this so when it does happen it just floors me. I am thinking long and hard about begining to be an OUT genderqueer/genderfucker/genderdevient. Introducing myself as neither and both gender and "could you refer to me as both male and female?" and using both bathrooms and educating people and forcing them to think about it.
I am just not sure how to react to this. If I should start taking a stand, being more visable.
Anyone have thoughts?