News about this is spreading, and many kind and considerate people aren't sure how much they can discuss without my permission. So, for them as well as those who may not yet have heard: My wife Lauri,
laurellady on LJ, died two days ago on Sunday March 1. My daughter
madelineusher and I are being supported by dozens of friends and loved ones, to whom I am incredibly grateful.
The title of this post, "Memento Vivere", was Lauri's motto in the fraternal order
Ordo Templi Orientis. It means "Remember to Live", and I am sure that is the message she would want to send to all of you.