Jan 17, 2011 15:19
Please, I need some advice on this matter... I want to tell my mom that I'm bisexual, but I don't know how to do it or how she'll react. My sister would hate me for it. And its like, a 70/30 split. Is that possible? Like, I'm into guys more, but I'm attracted to some females as well... I'm a lot more discerning regarding the females that I would be into, and I'd prefer a guy any day of the week... But that being said, I'm not totally closed to the idea of snogging chicks, y'know? I'm into that as well, given the right person. Does this even make me bisexual? Or is that just normal and I'm totally straight? I guess unless I'm actually dating a girl then I wouldn't HAVE to tell anyone anyway... But I feel like I want to because it's annoying the heck out of me to feel like I'm hiding a part of myself. It's causing me to feel a lot of shame and secrecy because I feel like there's this desire and part of me that I have to keep hidden. What do I do? I have no one to talk to about this, so if anyone reads this and could find it in their hearts to help, I would be so overwhelmingly grateful. Please.
advice,
crisis,
help,
please,
frustrated,
confused