Thank you
Thank you. Thank you for doing what I didn't have the guts to do b/c I'm generally a nice and forgiving person. I don't keep grudges or hold things against people. I look over their flaws and their double standards. When they say one thing but don't follow their own words then I just look past it.
Looking back I now see that all these things that didn't add up actually do add up. You talk the talk but you don't walk the walk. Some examples and some other shit that pisses me off:
-You have told me that your kids have poor diets so you need to give them vitamins. You've sent them to hot dog socials. But then you have a mini tirade on ME about having hot dogs at the birthday party and ZOMG you kids can't eat nitrates. Please.
-You told me once that I shouldn't feed my kids McDonalds b/c of trans fats. Yeah I caught you with your crunchy pants down on that one didn't I.
-Your kid supposedly wears cloth diapers...obviously that is only at home or for show.
-I'm still waiting for my kids' xmas present. I now regret spending so much time and effort in getting yours done on time.
-When their were coops you would take your time getting money to me but god forbid I owe you a few bucks you are beating down my door for it
-You freaked out b/c my kid was trying to get your attention. B/c she LIKED you and actually is allowed to and enjoys talking to adults. SHE DID NOTHING WRONG. YOU HAVE PROBLEMS.
-You have the audacity to FINALLY invite me over to your house with the kids and its the day Isa is gone to grandmas. Yeah, that was so wrong, see above point.
-My children are not "stranger" babies. If you are such a germafobe that my kids can't touch your stuff then you need help. They sell medication for this.
-You have repeatedly hurt my feelings. My memory is poor and I"m not spending all day on this.
Apparently you just throw away friends. You don't bother to work things out or have a mature conversation. The only thing I can think of is that you are jealous. Jealous I have my life together. That I have friends, social circles, my kids are socialized, and well rounded. We enjoy getting out of the house together. I don't sit at home scared to leave. I think you are very unaffectionate and sometimes cold. You look for the faults in everyone and assume everyone is looking for your faults as well. Well you are wrong. I looked past them. Until now. I can't deal with the immaturity. We are two different people and I'm happy we are going our seperate ways. I was wasting way too much time our your negativity and your seeming dislike of socialization esp with your children. From what you have told me, this losing of friends is a pattern in your life. I should have known better.
So again, thank you. I KNOW you will read this b/c you are the type of person to obsessivly follow your "friends" and see what they are saying about you. I imagine you think I might do the same. Well I won't/don't. Don't bother writing anything public for me b/c I will never ever know about it.
Looking back I now see that all these things that didn't add up actually do add up. You talk the talk but you don't walk the walk. Some examples and some other shit that pisses me off:
-You have told me that your kids have poor diets so you need to give them vitamins. You've sent them to hot dog socials. But then you have a mini tirade on ME about having hot dogs at the birthday party and ZOMG you kids can't eat nitrates. Please.
-You told me once that I shouldn't feed my kids McDonalds b/c of trans fats. Yeah I caught you with your crunchy pants down on that one didn't I.
-Your kid supposedly wears cloth diapers...obviously that is only at home or for show.
-I'm still waiting for my kids' xmas present. I now regret spending so much time and effort in getting yours done on time.
-When their were coops you would take your time getting money to me but god forbid I owe you a few bucks you are beating down my door for it
-You freaked out b/c my kid was trying to get your attention. B/c she LIKED you and actually is allowed to and enjoys talking to adults. SHE DID NOTHING WRONG. YOU HAVE PROBLEMS.
-You have the audacity to FINALLY invite me over to your house with the kids and its the day Isa is gone to grandmas. Yeah, that was so wrong, see above point.
-My children are not "stranger" babies. If you are such a germafobe that my kids can't touch your stuff then you need help. They sell medication for this.
-You have repeatedly hurt my feelings. My memory is poor and I"m not spending all day on this.
Apparently you just throw away friends. You don't bother to work things out or have a mature conversation. The only thing I can think of is that you are jealous. Jealous I have my life together. That I have friends, social circles, my kids are socialized, and well rounded. We enjoy getting out of the house together. I don't sit at home scared to leave. I think you are very unaffectionate and sometimes cold. You look for the faults in everyone and assume everyone is looking for your faults as well. Well you are wrong. I looked past them. Until now. I can't deal with the immaturity. We are two different people and I'm happy we are going our seperate ways. I was wasting way too much time our your negativity and your seeming dislike of socialization esp with your children. From what you have told me, this losing of friends is a pattern in your life. I should have known better.
So again, thank you. I KNOW you will read this b/c you are the type of person to obsessivly follow your "friends" and see what they are saying about you. I imagine you think I might do the same. Well I won't/don't. Don't bother writing anything public for me b/c I will never ever know about it.