For anyone who's interested, I'm part of a brilliant little comm called
help_them_heal. It's an all-faith-inclusive, all-gender-inclusive, all-sexuality-inclusive community devoted to partners/allies/friends/family of (any kind of) abuse survivors and abuse survivors themselves, also. It's such a warm and caring little place, and so amazing if you're looking to help a friend or loved one heal, or looking to heal yourself. I thought it'd be a disservice not to mention it to my flist, in case anyone would be interested in that kind of thing.