i am not changing my mind on this.
"i don't want to have this conversation anymore. i'm not going to tell you all the horrible things you never saw just to win your friendship from him. like i said, i have supportive friends and i'm finally happy. just know that abuse isn't something people generally ever see or hear and that a real friend would take a stand rather than trying to straddle the fence. and that's why i'm not changing my mind on this. i deserve better and i'm finally free to feel and say that."