Sorry you had to deal with this. I know exactly how you feel. I had the SAME thing happen when my boys were born with my mom. She is gone now and we haven't spoken since. She will no longer be a part of my boys lives. It's sad and it sucks but it was her choice. =/
Exactly. Her choice. What is wrong with some women? Why can't they just be happy for us for a little while before blowing their tops?
I'm sorry you had to deal with this too. I don't understand it. It seems very selfish and quite childish. At least my situation turned into that.
Now I'm just hoping my dad will remain a part of Riley's life. My dad is so proud to have a grandson, his namesake no less. It'd be a shame for him to miss out because he has an insecure wife who can't allow any other women into my dad's life, the other woman being me, his freaking daughter!
I hope you have or are getting through this situation ok. I am by focusing on what's important, my family. It pains me that this all happened, but the truth remains that now I have a family to care after and my family is top priority. My dad's wife doesn't deserve a second thought, so I do my best to forget all about her.
Everything you just said I feel and am doing. It was selfish of my mom and very immature. She was just jealous but it wasn't her place to be jealous. As my mother she should have been the most supportive and happiest for me. She wasn't. Like you said now we have families of our own and as mothers will do anything to protect them from harm and especially childish women lol.
I get really down when I think about her, so I try not to. It's hard to pretend you don't have a mom though when she has been a part of my life for so long. I just focus on my boys and how happy they make me. It works 100%.
That's exactly what I told my dad. I have to remove any kind of poison from my sons life, that's my job as his mother. I was just dismayed that the first poison would be his wife
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Wow, I'm sorry to hear about your mom. And thank you for your kind words they helped. I do hope one day she corrects her mistakes, we'll see right?
It's scary how protective we are over our children. Then it's even scarier thinking how we can't always protect them. We can do our best though right? The love that is possible between a mother and her child is undescribable. I couldn't love anything more than I love these little boys of mine. It's truly amazing.
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I'm sorry you had to deal with this too. I don't understand it. It seems very selfish and quite childish. At least my situation turned into that.
Now I'm just hoping my dad will remain a part of Riley's life. My dad is so proud to have a grandson, his namesake no less. It'd be a shame for him to miss out because he has an insecure wife who can't allow any other women into my dad's life, the other woman being me, his freaking daughter!
I hope you have or are getting through this situation ok. I am by focusing on what's important, my family. It pains me that this all happened, but the truth remains that now I have a family to care after and my family is top priority. My dad's wife doesn't deserve a second thought, so I do my best to forget all about her.
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I get really down when I think about her, so I try not to. It's hard to pretend you don't have a mom though when she has been a part of my life for so long. I just focus on my boys and how happy they make me. It works 100%.
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It's scary how protective we are over our children. Then it's even scarier thinking how we can't always protect them. We can do our best though right? The love that is possible between a mother and her child is undescribable. I couldn't love anything more than I love these little boys of mine. It's truly amazing.
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