Jun 13, 2007 12:58
Ok, people, it has been a long time since I have done this!
So this is more for singles on my friends lists, but feel free to answer if you can remember back to single days.
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What do you look for in a mate? What attracts you to a person? What turns you off? How long before you have sex in a relationship?
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I have a friend that loses her identity with every relationship. It is a shame because she is an amazing woman, good mother, great at her job, etc. All that is missing in her life is a man. I think she is so desperate (i hate that word) that she loses herself and lets the man control her life. I have seen her dissolve relationships with family members and friends. It makes you want to grab her around the shoulders and smack her to try and snap her out of it. She also has sex way to soon, and leaves no mystery to the relationship, no time to have that feeling of missing the other person because of over texting, emailing, phoning, etc. I know I am not the only one that has a needy friend that has lost their confidence in who they are... what do you do to help? Can you without isolating the friend?
anyway... I will screen comments and only make visible if you tell me it is okay... if you want make two replies for the stuff you want kept private.
friendstuff,
quirky questions