Sometimes, love just ain't enough. Coming back to our daily lives, I think it is impossible to avoid heartbreak warfare if people only want to remain the way they are. Yet, it is also tiring for one to keep on changing oneself to suit the other. Both being said, should one venture out of the windows of mundane living, he or she may find or learn from the fruits of a path that is light, full, yet cheery, and perhaps bring that back to the relationship, which could lessen heartbreak warfare and increase peaceful coexistence.
Then again, if the other only wants to remain the way they are, then perhaps, it is a sign that, perhaps, the relationship didn't start off on a balanced note*. And if both are willing, work should go back to the basics, and verbalize what weren't verbalized then, and set off on a more balanced note and keep to what were laid down as much as possible. But if neither one wishes to continue, may both find happiness here henceforth.
Many times, in what i've learnt and experienced, many things are a continuation, rather than a new beginning. Even if it ends now, paths will find a way to converge in the future, i believe. Deeply.
*by denoting 'balanced', i don't mean 50-50. As long as it doesn't tip the scales too immediately, i think it can be considered balanced.
Then again, if the other only wants to remain the way they are, then perhaps, it is a sign that, perhaps, the relationship didn't start off on a balanced note*. And if both are willing, work should go back to the basics, and verbalize what weren't verbalized then, and set off on a more balanced note and keep to what were laid down as much as possible. But if neither one wishes to continue, may both find happiness here henceforth.
Many times, in what i've learnt and experienced, many things are a continuation, rather than a new beginning. Even if it ends now, paths will find a way to converge in the future, i believe. Deeply.
*by denoting 'balanced', i don't mean 50-50. As long as it doesn't tip the scales too immediately, i think it can be considered balanced.
Reply
Leave a comment