Clearing the air.
Apparently, my soon-to-be ex-husband has been telling people that he ended our relationship because he found out about horrible things I'd done in our relationship. I'm not going to go into what I did, or what he did, because I am still vehemently trying to be the better person here. I've been kind enough to fight the urge to go into details; a lot of people I consider friends or at least friendly aquaintences I haven't even mentioned the impending divorce to.
But when I hear through my friends that people my ex barely knows are saying I did horrible things and Shoe is kicking me out on my butt, I can't remain totally silent. Frankly, it's unfair to expect me to.
All I will say in public is that, yes, we're getting divorced; it was initially MY decision to end it, and while I've been no saint, I certainly did not choose to end our marriage because I am a heinous bitch and because of horrible, terrible things I did. Although Shoe broadcasted exactly WHY I broke things off with him on his blog for the whole world to see, I will not repeat it, because I know he can be a better person than he was, and than he is currently being.
I'm not saying I'm blameless. I'm saying the version of events I've heard is horribly, terribly skewed.
Comments on this are screened. If you know the both of us and would like clarification, leave your email address for me. If you don't know the both of us, haven't heard about either side, and/or it's just generally not your business, I'm going to continue in demure silence.
Some things are personal and private, much to my ex's disbelief.
But when I hear through my friends that people my ex barely knows are saying I did horrible things and Shoe is kicking me out on my butt, I can't remain totally silent. Frankly, it's unfair to expect me to.
All I will say in public is that, yes, we're getting divorced; it was initially MY decision to end it, and while I've been no saint, I certainly did not choose to end our marriage because I am a heinous bitch and because of horrible, terrible things I did. Although Shoe broadcasted exactly WHY I broke things off with him on his blog for the whole world to see, I will not repeat it, because I know he can be a better person than he was, and than he is currently being.
I'm not saying I'm blameless. I'm saying the version of events I've heard is horribly, terribly skewed.
Comments on this are screened. If you know the both of us and would like clarification, leave your email address for me. If you don't know the both of us, haven't heard about either side, and/or it's just generally not your business, I'm going to continue in demure silence.
Some things are personal and private, much to my ex's disbelief.