as an adult with priorities, your feet firmly planted on the ground, reasonable and logical, living in this day and age.. if asked to choose between the first two and the last one, which would you choose?
Good question. You can look at it two ways, in my opinion.
First, if you had a good job and a good car, you'd be able to take on your adult priorities and live comfortably. Plus, if you were to choose these 2 options over the last, you'd be assured a stable income and such. Not having a 'good someone to love' isn't going to kill you, but not having the first 2 could possibly be the death of you.
But, you could also look at it in another light. Perhaps if you had a good someone to love, you'd have the willpower, energy, whatever you want to call it, to go out and achieve good things. Thus, you'd get the good job and the good car, and you'd also have a loved one as well.
So, I guess it depends on the person. Me, I'd pick the first 2 and just hope for the good person to come along. But I'd not worry if he didn't. Some people, however, thrive on relationships.. Therefore it'd be better to start off with the good person.
Does any of that make sense? It does to me, in my mind. ;P
it does. very much. *sigh* the problem is that in life, choices are hardly that clear cut. there always seems to be a catch somewhere and a person just happens to find it when s/he least expects it to.. and isnt it great that its the result of your own choice? there isnt anyone you can pass the buck to. *frowns* such is the irony of life neh? condemned to live a life of choice. god has a very strange sense of humor.
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First, if you had a good job and a good car, you'd be able to take on your adult priorities and live comfortably. Plus, if you were to choose these 2 options over the last, you'd be assured a stable income and such. Not having a 'good someone to love' isn't going to kill you, but not having the first 2 could possibly be the death of you.
But, you could also look at it in another light. Perhaps if you had a good someone to love, you'd have the willpower, energy, whatever you want to call it, to go out and achieve good things. Thus, you'd get the good job and the good car, and you'd also have a loved one as well.
So, I guess it depends on the person. Me, I'd pick the first 2 and just hope for the good person to come along. But I'd not worry if he didn't. Some people, however, thrive on relationships.. Therefore it'd be better to start off with the good person.
Does any of that make sense? It does to me, in my mind. ;P
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*sigh* the problem is that in life, choices are hardly that clear cut. there always seems to be a catch somewhere and a person just happens to find it when s/he least expects it to.. and isnt it great that its the result of your own choice? there isnt anyone you can pass the buck to. *frowns*
such is the irony of life neh? condemned to live a life of choice.
god has a very strange sense of humor.
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