I spent last shabbat with a bunch of very snuggly people. Being back is a stark reminder of how generally lacking the world is in hugs. I forget a lot that most people are actually quite huggable. I spent over five hours with a friend last night, and finally remembered to hug him goodbye. It's good to have huggable friends.
This morning, I put hugging pictures on my wall! Maybe you're there:
- Kaity and Danina in the cafeteria at the end of 11th grade
- me and Nadiva at her bat mitzvah
- me and Marjorie lying upside down off the side of her bed when I went to visit her over spring break
- Kali, Andrew, Willem, Emma and Renee sprawled on the grass "haha-style" at Upattinas
- me, Serena, Rocio and Kristen on my birthday freshman year
- me and Nomi on the last night of camp in 1999
- Sonja and Elise, AF2002
- Tom and Jared at senior prom (no I wasn't there)
- me and Eitan at his 8th grade graduation
- me, Nadiva, Brian and Jeff on a friday afternoon at machaneh
- me, Anna and Christina in the 4th floor hallway in 9th grade
- me and Talia at Upattinas graduation
- me and Danina, soaking wet in Washington, DC
- me, Kaity, Nathaniel, Danina and silly face drawn on a big orange balloon, spring HS picnic 2002
- me, Sara B and Kaity (same place? but we're wearing different clothes... maybe it's the next year and I came back to visit)
Most hugs don't make it into photographs, they just live in memories. But that's not really the point. Hugs in the present tense are much more fulfilling than memories. I think hugs are a nutrient... You need your fruits and vegetables, grains and protein, and at least 10 hugs a day.