New Thoughts
All through my life I wanted marriage and kids. But recently after thinking and observing I decided I don't ever want to get married. I used to say I will just get married once and that's it but now I don't even want that. I've discovered most couples do not last long-term anymore. And if they do last something probably happen during it. Like
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I hated men and the whole 'love' shit most of my life, but then I met Mike. Mike is wonderful and we fit together like a perfect pair of gloves. Who's to say what will happen in the future, but right now I trust him with my whole heart and I never thought I'd ever feel this way about anyone. EVER. This is ME talking, remember. I'm nothing like everyone else. LoL
The ONLY way you'll find someone you TRULY love and who TRULY loves you is if you STOP LOOKING. That's what you see in so many friends and family members: they're looking for the first cute guy/girl that comes along. Maybe they get along and have some things in common. But it's not enough. You have to let these things occur naturally- never force them or rush them or make yourself believe something you don't feel. Sex is another issue- DON'T have sex with someone unless you are 100% happy with them and have been with them for a while and can trust them fully.
Every relationship has it's down times and fights. But if you can look past that and know that they are peas and carrots compared to the good times in your relationship, that's all that matters.
Mike and I rarely argue. When we do, it is often resolved easily. We are not jealous, we trust each other, we allow each other our freedoms, we have the same ethics and most importantly- we have so much fun together. Believe me, I've turned down tons of guys- regardless of how attractive and fun they are. Mike and I were friends first and let this develop over the years.
And you know what? To find this friend, you have to first find yourself. I know it sounds cheesy and cliche, but you need to know yourself, know your wants and likes and gain some self-respect. THEN you'll find the right guy.
And you know what will help you with this? Come camping!
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