lists.
Has anyone, other than myself, ever made a list of exactly what you want/expect in a partner/relationship? I Figured I may not be the only one, considering, it sounds like a very idealist thing to do.
also it really bothers me that i can't find one single person that has every quality on the list, and i look at it, and think that i don't set my standards too high, but other people say i set my standards super high. I just really want exactly what i'm looking for, and settling for something less, will never seem to bring me true happiness.
I'm currently in a shaky relationship with an INTJ , who i do love, but we drive each other crazy with our differences, and he is of course lacking a few things on the list, or he has violated a few things that i would never like to see in a partner (such as drug use) but anyway...
anyone else have these issues? Or am i perhaps crazy?
also it really bothers me that i can't find one single person that has every quality on the list, and i look at it, and think that i don't set my standards too high, but other people say i set my standards super high. I just really want exactly what i'm looking for, and settling for something less, will never seem to bring me true happiness.
I'm currently in a shaky relationship with an INTJ , who i do love, but we drive each other crazy with our differences, and he is of course lacking a few things on the list, or he has violated a few things that i would never like to see in a partner (such as drug use) but anyway...
anyone else have these issues? Or am i perhaps crazy?