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Saturday we went to Kimmy's birthday party and watched her open her presents and then play with some of her friends. We were there about 2 hours before we finally decided to go so we could run a few errands and then go home. We got her 3 dvds and a simpsons operation game and she was pretty happy with all of that.
This weekend we get the girls and we are probably going to go over to his sis's on saturday and then to the drillers game sat night.
My hours at Target have changed again...Finally I have normal hours!! Effective tomorrow I will be working from 8am-330pm with every other weekend off. The weeks I have the weekend Off I will have to work on Tuesday but If I have to work that weekend then i take tuesday off. My mom and I basically set our own hours and they were approved...I think its mainly b/c they know they can trust us to do the work without having to have someone watching over us.
It was done not because we just suddenly decided to change our hours but because we had to since my mom is getting legal guardianship of Joshua and he will be living with us. I want to keep the hours i have now though b/c they will be good to have if we ever get custody of the girls which could happen someday. I'm going to look into seeing what all has to be done and how much it will cost to have the porch enclosed to make another room. Its been started cause the person who was buying it wanted it enclosed but they could'nt get approved for a loan so it was never finished. All I know is I have a feeling before too much longer the extra room will come in handy.
no matter what its used for...an extra room would be nice to have.
ANyhow I ran into a blast from the past today...my ex-boyfriend's cousin and had a nice chat with her. I met her cousin the summer i was 19 and he was 26 and fell hard for him. He treated me really well and the reason I broke up with him was not because I wanted to but because i was pressured into it b/c of family. Not by my mom..she knew and was ok with it...as was my sis...the rest of the family would have disowned me. I loved him..and a part of me always will. DOn't get me wrong i Love tony and all but no one can take the place in my heart that he held. He was bi-racial...his mom was white and his dad black...and thats what my family could not accept. Now I realize how foolish it was to let my familys views cause me to make some of the decisons I made back then, Even more so since half don't talk to me now as it is so what would i be missing out on if they disowned me? I know it might come as a surrpise to some that I was deeply in love at one time with someone who was mixed but i was. If things don't work out between tony and I Or if I was;nt with him...would I date a mixed guy or a black guy right now...yes I would. If that shocks people sorry but its the honest truth...
if the guy treats me right and does right by others...treats his fam right,respects others,works,etc,,,then I could give a damn what his skin color is. Running into her was nice and she said she would give him my number...she knows I am in a realtionship now and all so if we do talk it will be just 2 old freinds catching up.
This weekend we get the girls and we are probably going to go over to his sis's on saturday and then to the drillers game sat night.
My hours at Target have changed again...Finally I have normal hours!! Effective tomorrow I will be working from 8am-330pm with every other weekend off. The weeks I have the weekend Off I will have to work on Tuesday but If I have to work that weekend then i take tuesday off. My mom and I basically set our own hours and they were approved...I think its mainly b/c they know they can trust us to do the work without having to have someone watching over us.
It was done not because we just suddenly decided to change our hours but because we had to since my mom is getting legal guardianship of Joshua and he will be living with us. I want to keep the hours i have now though b/c they will be good to have if we ever get custody of the girls which could happen someday. I'm going to look into seeing what all has to be done and how much it will cost to have the porch enclosed to make another room. Its been started cause the person who was buying it wanted it enclosed but they could'nt get approved for a loan so it was never finished. All I know is I have a feeling before too much longer the extra room will come in handy.
no matter what its used for...an extra room would be nice to have.
ANyhow I ran into a blast from the past today...my ex-boyfriend's cousin and had a nice chat with her. I met her cousin the summer i was 19 and he was 26 and fell hard for him. He treated me really well and the reason I broke up with him was not because I wanted to but because i was pressured into it b/c of family. Not by my mom..she knew and was ok with it...as was my sis...the rest of the family would have disowned me. I loved him..and a part of me always will. DOn't get me wrong i Love tony and all but no one can take the place in my heart that he held. He was bi-racial...his mom was white and his dad black...and thats what my family could not accept. Now I realize how foolish it was to let my familys views cause me to make some of the decisons I made back then, Even more so since half don't talk to me now as it is so what would i be missing out on if they disowned me? I know it might come as a surrpise to some that I was deeply in love at one time with someone who was mixed but i was. If things don't work out between tony and I Or if I was;nt with him...would I date a mixed guy or a black guy right now...yes I would. If that shocks people sorry but its the honest truth...
if the guy treats me right and does right by others...treats his fam right,respects others,works,etc,,,then I could give a damn what his skin color is. Running into her was nice and she said she would give him my number...she knows I am in a realtionship now and all so if we do talk it will be just 2 old freinds catching up.