Aug 30, 2004 02:32
I felt slightly bad tonight.
I nugged (hard) for a few friends that are a bit disgusted with a certian person to go hear his testimony tonight. Several people were upset but it because of whatever reasons, including one of the people whom I told should go.
Now the person whom I used to be would be upset and battle there reason for being right that they should go and feel horribly about the entire incident.
Heh.
But, it's not right to judge someone in the first place let alone think and say things about them that are observed in your own feeling and mind about them. THEN not go to something where they share something so personal and imtament about themselves and not at least hear them out. Then fine, have what you want from there, but don't deny them that chance. It's just plain wrong otherwise.
Sometimes doing the right thing involves a few feeling being stepped on abit, even though that's not the intention. Not out of spite but out of geniune concern. Sometimes thats a hard thing, but I'm finding that it's an important thing to know how to be able to do if I have to.