X + Y = ???? LIFE ????
S (2:38:28 PM): whatchya up to
t (2:39:06 PM): not much trying to figure out the meaning of life, ect...the usual…
t (2:39:08 PM): lol
S (2:40:32 PM): haha, that's a hefty thing to ponder
S (2:41:41 PM): did you figure it out yet?
t (2:42:42 PM): not yet...everytime i get close the equation changes...lol...ill keep u posted J
Soo ya the meaning of life...a basic equation… It weird cuz every time you look at understanding it, the variables you use are different, X is no longer equal to Y and the sum of your variables is greater than you would think. There are few stable concepts to keep in mind like 'The Law of Uncertainty' and 'The Rule of Change' being constant. There are also some basic tools you must use, like acceptance, forgiveness of others, forgiveness of self,faith and hope; as well as the functions of love, friendship, and, family….its probably the hardest problem you'll ever solve…. I figured out some tricks though, like you have to put momentum behind the force you exert over a goal as well as passion… and the one rule of thumb is that things don't always work out the way you planned ….
Making things happen in life…and getting use to what life throws at you; that's the daily challenge… there are things that each of us have to fight within our own lives, battles each of use has that we have to force out of our way so that we can achieve basic products we need for our equations like love, peace, and happiness. Its that struggle to move on beyond the vices that hold us back that makes the problem evolve and grow. There's a point where we realize that if we don't make a change then we'll never get to where we want to be…and sometimes that's scary… Taking a stand against what is easy and comfortable is hard but vital. Sometime they are manifested in bad habits like drinking or smoking or worse, other time they can be negative thoughts and sometimes they can even be people in our lives that we have to deal with.
Making a change so that the life you live is at its full potential is hard but in the end adds up to a positive output. Sometimes you have to go back in your equation to get the right result. Some problems need teamwork to solve them…sometimes when trying to solve your equation you realize you need others in your life to help get through the nitty gritty work that goes into change and that's okay, especially when you realize that you can always go back; things are never set in stone that's why you always write in pencil. The concept of math and life is the same; you never know unless you try if you don't put out a solution then you don't know if it's the right answer… If you never put out your hand to others, an apology when you need forgiveness, or your heart for love you'll never know if that could be the missing factor….
You have to move forward and make sure the life you are living is the one you wanted, that its' value is held within the actions, people, and relationships you surround yourself with. You have to be able to own your past and the choices you have made whether they have turned out right or not…you can't expect others to take on your problems or vices, even if they are your best friend, because everyone has their own equations they need to focus on… if something isn't working or doesn't feel right, either go back to something that did work or move on to something that will work…its simple yet complex, practical yet not straight forward…just like math…
luv t