Why can't he see it?
I have this person in my life that I care about. He's made some decisions that he shouldn't have. I can't get it out of my head. It's bothering me to the point of tears, and I don't cry. I feel like I can't do anything about the situation. Not me, not his friends, not his parents, not anyone. Because he's a "big boy" and he can "take care of himself." Nothing I do or say will matter to him. But I want it to so bad. He was the first boy I ever held hands with. He'll never be that same boy again. He's changed so much I don't even recognize him anymore. And he doesn't even know that I'm stressed. He doesn't think it's affecting anyone. That's what bothers me the most. Why can't he see what he's doing????