Can you believe it.

[incontrol]

I know it has been 8 months since my last post.. wow.. time sure does fly.. imagine 8 months and nothing to say... but I have been here, lurking around, reading other peoples post and putting in my two cents worth when I felt like it. But finally I thought it was time I came here and made some comments. Let's see, since my last post I have moved and am now living in St Petersburg, FL. Because of all my moving around, because of job, it is very difficult to find a sub or slave, most don't want to have to follow their Master all over the country. Such is my life but I have a good job, make good money, have a good family so I haven't much to really complain about. I am still very interested in control and love to have opportunities to control people, sexually and non-sexually. Sometimes the non-sexual part can be just as fun and just as fullfilling for me, if the person has truly given me control. I would love to control someones budget, food, dress, freetime, work, bathroom, discipline of kids, decisions they need to make about things, etc etc.. as well as their sexual activities. Hince my nick Incontrol. I am still in the search for such a slave who desires to be totally controlled without out putting controls on me. How come so many that say they want to be controlled want to control. A lot of submissives only want to be submissive if they can do it their way. Now that is fine for some but it is not truly submissive from my perspective. It is minipulative and controlling. I guess if a wannabee master likes his sub telling him how he is to do things it is ok.. but for me I like complete control and like things my way. I understand the need for hard limits but if you give me control don't then put stipulations on it.. Tell me where your limits are at and i will tell you if I can work within those limits.. but as long as I am let me have the control you say you give me..
Oh well guess I have rambled on that long enough and most of you could care less.. but after all it has been 8 months..
be good..