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I'm in Chino Hills for the next couple days.
My grandma had a stroke on friday, which led to further complications. She passed away yesterday morning at 3:30 am. My mom called me at about 6:30, and told me the news. When she had a stroke friday, I drove down here, took a couple days off work and went to see her everyday. The first day was hard, yet better than the other days. She seemed to respond to me, and although she couldn't talk (she couldn't move her whole right side) She still made faces at me, and would nod on occasion. I went back Sunday, to see her. She was a little responsive. It just sat there crying, holding her hand. She would come in and out of it....and would see me crying and just stare. She'd start to hiccup which, to me...indicated that she was crying, but couldn't because she was half paralyzed. It hurt so much to see her like that. She would try and talk, and get frustrated that no one understood her. If you know my grandma, you'll know...she was a mouthy broad, and I'm sure it hurt her to not be able to respond.
The funeral is monday. My family from idaho is coming down....My uncle was here last week to come see her, but left wed. It's basically juust going to be small...My fucking aunt decided not to tell anyone she wont be attending her own mothers wedding. Probably a good idea, since she stole my grandmothers wedding rings right off her hand. Fucking cunt. I swear to god if I ever see that woman again.....
anyways, just wanted to update...
My grandma had a stroke on friday, which led to further complications. She passed away yesterday morning at 3:30 am. My mom called me at about 6:30, and told me the news. When she had a stroke friday, I drove down here, took a couple days off work and went to see her everyday. The first day was hard, yet better than the other days. She seemed to respond to me, and although she couldn't talk (she couldn't move her whole right side) She still made faces at me, and would nod on occasion. I went back Sunday, to see her. She was a little responsive. It just sat there crying, holding her hand. She would come in and out of it....and would see me crying and just stare. She'd start to hiccup which, to me...indicated that she was crying, but couldn't because she was half paralyzed. It hurt so much to see her like that. She would try and talk, and get frustrated that no one understood her. If you know my grandma, you'll know...she was a mouthy broad, and I'm sure it hurt her to not be able to respond.
The funeral is monday. My family from idaho is coming down....My uncle was here last week to come see her, but left wed. It's basically juust going to be small...My fucking aunt decided not to tell anyone she wont be attending her own mothers wedding. Probably a good idea, since she stole my grandmothers wedding rings right off her hand. Fucking cunt. I swear to god if I ever see that woman again.....
anyways, just wanted to update...