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DO WHAT IT TAKES
You go just far enough to show your
interest, but you don't take it too far.
You're making yourself known but
playing it safe. That sounds like a
good way to go, 'cause you don't
want to look totally disinterested, but
you don't want to give yourself away
either.
You'll give it a shot, but you're not gonna fire more than a couple rounds of BB pellets. Gosh, you kinda sound like a totally reasonable person. That's sexier than it sounds, trust us.
happy or miserble
Emotionally: You're not totally unhappy, but you're not doing cartwheels either. Luckily, things aren't so disastrous that you can't start a conversation about your relationship. Since there are at least some feelings you share with them, you can start on that common ground, and ease into a discussion about needs that could be met a little more. The key is keeping the communication temperate. No flip-outs are required for this, so keep your passions in check.
Physically: Things apparently aren't going that bad in your opinion. Then again, things aren't exactly dy-no-mite, at least not all the time. You may still be figuring things out as you go along. You need to determine what you want from this kind of thing, whether or not you're likely to get it from your partner, or whether you'd rather place other matters in higher importance right now. Nobody's holding a gun to your head, you know. Think it over.
Interests: You and your partner share a lot of the same interests. That's always helpful in a relationship situation. A part of you might wish your partner would at least make a bit more effort to understand your interests better. But realize that nobody's ever going to duplicate your areas of curiosity. It's all a matter of balance. You have a strong bond with your partner, so just maintain that chemistry between discovering things together and nurturing your own, private fascinations.
Conflicts: You're halfway there; you just need to finish the job. Your opinions of how your and your partner fight are okay - but it could also mean that one or both of you is avoiding conflict. Take a look at the statements you disagreed with; they’ll reveal your attitude of your fight strategy or your partner's tactics. Maybe in a moment of relative tranquility between the two, you could cozy up and bring it up as something you feel a little troubled about.
im bored and the quizes were emailed to me
well anyways warped tour was yesterday i had fun. . .fo rthe most part
i was uncomfortable by chris then we got seperated cuz he tought i left him from my friend which wasnt true then he flicked me off and yelled at me like never before i was so pissed i just wanted to hug him but at the same tim ebe on the other side of the world from him
i had to stop the birthcontrol for a month so i cant do it for like two months and chris knew that he always asked if he could "go" inside me while we where doing it and i always so no and i told him why and how i felt about it and i would be pissed at him if he did and even today i said no and then he did im so pissed at him i couldnt even look at him but all i wanted to do was hold him i was supossed to make him dinner tonite and bake him a cake. . lets see how far that goes
today is our three month and hes guna spend all day playing poker with his friends last nite was good my mom brought us home from warped tour and bought us wendys and then me and chris sleeped down stairs but then my mom told us to go sleep upstairs which was awesome that she trust me like that we didnt do n e thing tho anyways im hungry ohh yeah and i made him breakfast AFTER he said he wanted to make me breakfast which i didnt have a problem with but then i seasoned the eggs so they eould taste better and he was like "i told you not to put anything in them" and that really upset me but then i had to clean all the dishes too
anyways im done fo now ill try to update later
-Erin
You go just far enough to show your
interest, but you don't take it too far.
You're making yourself known but
playing it safe. That sounds like a
good way to go, 'cause you don't
want to look totally disinterested, but
you don't want to give yourself away
either.
You'll give it a shot, but you're not gonna fire more than a couple rounds of BB pellets. Gosh, you kinda sound like a totally reasonable person. That's sexier than it sounds, trust us.
happy or miserble
Emotionally: You're not totally unhappy, but you're not doing cartwheels either. Luckily, things aren't so disastrous that you can't start a conversation about your relationship. Since there are at least some feelings you share with them, you can start on that common ground, and ease into a discussion about needs that could be met a little more. The key is keeping the communication temperate. No flip-outs are required for this, so keep your passions in check.
Physically: Things apparently aren't going that bad in your opinion. Then again, things aren't exactly dy-no-mite, at least not all the time. You may still be figuring things out as you go along. You need to determine what you want from this kind of thing, whether or not you're likely to get it from your partner, or whether you'd rather place other matters in higher importance right now. Nobody's holding a gun to your head, you know. Think it over.
Interests: You and your partner share a lot of the same interests. That's always helpful in a relationship situation. A part of you might wish your partner would at least make a bit more effort to understand your interests better. But realize that nobody's ever going to duplicate your areas of curiosity. It's all a matter of balance. You have a strong bond with your partner, so just maintain that chemistry between discovering things together and nurturing your own, private fascinations.
Conflicts: You're halfway there; you just need to finish the job. Your opinions of how your and your partner fight are okay - but it could also mean that one or both of you is avoiding conflict. Take a look at the statements you disagreed with; they’ll reveal your attitude of your fight strategy or your partner's tactics. Maybe in a moment of relative tranquility between the two, you could cozy up and bring it up as something you feel a little troubled about.
im bored and the quizes were emailed to me
well anyways warped tour was yesterday i had fun. . .fo rthe most part
i was uncomfortable by chris then we got seperated cuz he tought i left him from my friend which wasnt true then he flicked me off and yelled at me like never before i was so pissed i just wanted to hug him but at the same tim ebe on the other side of the world from him
i had to stop the birthcontrol for a month so i cant do it for like two months and chris knew that he always asked if he could "go" inside me while we where doing it and i always so no and i told him why and how i felt about it and i would be pissed at him if he did and even today i said no and then he did im so pissed at him i couldnt even look at him but all i wanted to do was hold him i was supossed to make him dinner tonite and bake him a cake. . lets see how far that goes
today is our three month and hes guna spend all day playing poker with his friends last nite was good my mom brought us home from warped tour and bought us wendys and then me and chris sleeped down stairs but then my mom told us to go sleep upstairs which was awesome that she trust me like that we didnt do n e thing tho anyways im hungry ohh yeah and i made him breakfast AFTER he said he wanted to make me breakfast which i didnt have a problem with but then i seasoned the eggs so they eould taste better and he was like "i told you not to put anything in them" and that really upset me but then i had to clean all the dishes too
anyways im done fo now ill try to update later
-Erin