news about houdini a.k.a the missing ex-boyfriend....
well, he called thrice so far this month:
dec 17 - i was on my way out to work so i had to cut the call real short. he was quite suprised that i was working (again) already.
dec 21 - the day after my bday,
debonairdanwas here and sensed that it was mr. x i was talking with 'coz, according to my sweetie, i was "hostile" on the phone. i didn't really mean to be mean... in fact, i was trying to be civil! anyways, jay asked for my sun # since he's using that to call me on the landline. then he called thru my sun # and i took the call by my boyfriend's side. after the usual hi's/hello's/how are you's, jay said he wanted to spend christmas w/ me but it's unlikely 'coz of my sched... then i said something like "yeah, aside from having to work on christmas eve & christmas day, i'm also spending xmas w/ my boyfriend!" then there was silence... obviously, he was stunned... prolly didn't know what else to say so he just said "may bf ka na pla... anyways, u now know my #... if u need someone to talk to, u can always call me..." then wished me happy holidays and cut the call. a few minutes after, he sent a text message: "may bf ka na pala... sa frndstr kse single ka pa. anyways, happy holidays".
i was like, single??? eh dec 5, i changed my status na frm single to it's complicated then when i got home dec 10, i changed it na to in a relationship!
dec 27 - one of my days off, he said he was in tagaytay w/ some officemates but he's kinda feeling left out that's why he called me. then he was kinda probing about my new relationship and ended up voicing out his "feelings" about it/me. he said nanghihinayang daw sya 'coz now that he's resolved his personal issues/stuff and that he has time for me, i'm no longer there. i had to remind him that he kept me hanging for a time and he acknowledged that, apologized for it and was even wanting to make up for all the promises he's broken. i told him he doesn't have to (and frankly, it's useless, right?). he said the eventhough i'm w/ somebody else, he's happy 'coz at least, we're still talking. however, somewhere in the conversation, he slipped and said that he thought madaya ako. i got kinda pissed and asked him why (at the same time, preparing my backlash if ever he says something foul). he couldn't answer... he just said he felt somehow cheated so i reminded him of what happened, why brought us to the situation we're in now. then he said something like i have a habit of bringing up the past daw... well, if it'll knock some sense into him, why not? di ba? he's trying to act like he's the victim and it pissed me off bigtime! then he kept on telling me about his panghihinayang about us, i insinuated that he get over it & move on... i just told him to look at the bright side: that since he's resolved his issues now & he has time, he can focus on the next girl he's gonna be interested in... but no, he's answer was: "and what, go through the whole process of getting to know the person again? spending 30, 40 hours a week to be with & please them? i don't wanna do that anymore. i'd rather go with someone i've already known!" so i suggested that he do a backtrack of his ex-gfs: contact them, see if they're available and date them again! when he learned that twas my day off that day he called, he said that if he had known, he would've just stayed in Manila and spent the day w/ me... and my exact reply was: "wenk! okay ka lang?!" i just made up an excuse that i don't wna got out during my day off 'coz it's my chance to catch on my sleep (and, hello... why would i want to go out w/ him?!?) hehe... i think he got disappointed w/ my reaction and 'coz throughout the conversation, i kept on reiterating how happy i am w/ my life now
hehe... some people said what i did to him was kinda bitchy... i didn't mean or plan to but in one way or another, i think he deserved it.
jan 8 - he's amazed that everytime he called, it was my day off... i just told him he just got lucky. he was asking if i had plans for the night, and i did. i'm spending time w/ my parents 'coz eversince i started my nightshift we weren't able to bond/talk. he said he was gonna ask me out to dinner but since i had plans, obviously the answer was no. then he said something like "it's either wrong timing ako mag-invite or ayaw lang talaga nung ini-invite ko..."
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sucia_baila said, "wrong timing basta may boyfriend! weirdo ba siya?"