stole this from someone .. and thought it was pretty true
well liking someone that is already taken is somewhat less
heartbreaking than liking someone who simply doesnt like you back
becuase when you like someone who has a girlfriend, you know that they
dont like you, but you know its only becuase they have a girlfriend.
when you like someone that is single, you know that they dont like you
becuase .. they dont like you. the way to get over someone is not
finding bad things about them finding the bad in people is not good
usually we're trying to find the good in people
so if you tell him you like him, get yourself ready for the worst. and
then maybe if the worst doesnt happen, youll be surprised. and if you
dont want to ruin the friendship by telling him you like him, you have
to make sure that you dont act weird, becuase he probably wont. think
about why you like him and if you actually want to be with him. think
about how you would act with him when youre around mutual friends.
everyone likes to be liked, so telling him might not be a bad idea
afterall. just dont let yourself get hurt. and remember to remain
mysterious. if you give it all away and tell him everything, theres
nothing left to keep him interested. you should make him wonder. make
him ask questions. and hope he doesnt do the same. not that you dont
want to ask him questions. not that you dont want a challenge.
memories are good. and the little things are important. you notice
things about him that you want him to notice about you. dont try to be
like someone you know he likes. be yourself. if you act like someone
you are not, youll never be able act like who you are. dont live up to
his expectations just to impress him. dont always give him what he
wants. but dont tease him either. maybe you should just hug him for a
while and not let go. or write him a note that youll never give to him.
maybe hes smart enough to just know