This has been an issue that I have brushed off my shoulder for some time because I really dont give 37 shits what most of you have to say sometimes. But over the past few years....mainly since I have been married, many of my long time friends from my youth have abandoned our friendship but continued friendships with others from our rather large
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I perfectly understand what you say about the not thinking about me because we are never around each other anymore. Now that the real reason is out I understand. But in the same subject, Clemmons spoke with Scott and told him about being pissed about it and Scott's basic response was "so?" I fail to see a reason for that.
I obviously miss alot of my friends or I wouldnt have started all this. I am not one to just toss aside REAL friends and not know what happened. The reason I couldnt go anywhere as stated above was not entirely due to being broke. I could have scraped up a few bux once in a while if I really wanted to. But the lack of a drivers license left me with a lack of freedom. If I wasnt at work I was at home and it got depressing really fast. You all know I have always hated relying on someone else for anything. But right now I rely on Mers mom to help with the mortgage due to my own ignorance. This is all a HUGE LESSON LEARNED.
Regarding Jeremy. I honestly dont care about not having any history. I never blamed him for me smoking in the office, I have accepted responsibility. I just want to know what problem he had with me. We never had foul words, argued, no attitude, and I honestly NEVER HAD A CLUE. I can't take care of a problem I don't know exists.
RE: Scheduled visits. HAHAHA Like child custody! Who's the bitchy mom? It does sound corny as all hell, but remember the days of taking over STIX Billiards? I don't want it to revolve around a set schedule just to hang with friends. Things shouldnt have to be like that. I normally have Wednesdays off and work mostly day shifts so my nights are free. Also Mer just took a transfer to a traveling division of her company and when shes off, shes off. Theres no phone calls early in the morning asking you to come in and is often at home for 4 days in a row. So I can get the car pretty easily when shes here.
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On the Jeremy thing, let me update you on his behavior. He has none. Simple as that. He takes on whoever's behavior he's hanging out with the most at the time and then multiplies it by 100. While he was at 103rd, he was obviously hanging out with Matt a lot, and we all know what Matt's outake on this situation was, therefore multiply it by 100 and you get Jeremy hating on you big time. Everyone knows that he does this except him, and we bitch at him for it constantly, but I'm telling you now, talking to him won't solve anything. I should know, I've been his friend for about 20 years now and he won't even listen to me...He doesn't even know that he does it. So yeah, with things the way they are now, he'll most likely blow the whole thing off and say the same things that I've been saying to you, only with less regard on the outcome of his words and actions. Long story short, I dont think he had a problem with you, he just thought it was the "popular" thing to do. (He's stupid like that)
Oh, and it's not so much like "assigned playtime" as it is a promise to each other that on whatever day we choose, no matter what, we are going to do something as friends. If something happens and, say.....you wanna come over or go to the Sanctuary and do something, then great! Hell yeah! But all it is, having a day set aside, is "friend time".
So you work mostly day shifts huh? Well crap, I'll mostly be working nights. I'll come up to Pj's the next time I get a chance and we'll talk more. You probably know that there's much more to say and catch up on than there is will to type it all out.
See ya!
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