Now I feel like I've achieved creeper status... truth be told I think it may just be that lj looks attractive to the depressed who know they don't want all of facebook to see what they're feeling and don't want to leave a paper trail around the house. At least that's why I logged in.
I don't really have any good advice or encouraging words to offer. I just felt like I had to comment on this because if I didn't I would feel dirty, like I was keeping some kind of secret. All I feel would be appropriate to say is that one thing that I've sort of come to decide on is that if you aren't thinking that you would like to marry someone or they don't feel that way about you then someone's time is being wasted in the relationship and if it isn't meant to be then it isn't going to be. But even knowing that doesn't take away the sting. I don't think you should look too hard for something to take away the sting though, because when you think about it what would make a good time good without a bad time as a frame of reference. If all there was were good times then they would just be the ok times.
I'm sorry that I'm no professional writer and that none of this flows at all. I'm sorry that its just going to be a struggle for you to read through this and stay focused. I'm sorry that you have to put on an act around other people so they don't worry about you, and I'm sorry for your pain. But it will get better. I'd like to offer myself as a listener if you feel like you need someone to talk to. But I'm sure you've got other people who have offered and you would feel more comfortable talking to. I'm sure you can get in touch if you do want to talk though, and I'll listen.
I mean it. I might not be able to offer you a long reply back in return, but I hope you know that I mean these few words and that I really, honestly, appreciate the friendship and the ear you've offered me. Chances are you'll be getting a text from me one of these nights and I might make you keep true on that offer.
I don't really have any good advice or encouraging words to offer. I just felt like I had to comment on this because if I didn't I would feel dirty, like I was keeping some kind of secret. All I feel would be appropriate to say is that one thing that I've sort of come to decide on is that if you aren't thinking that you would like to marry someone or they don't feel that way about you then someone's time is being wasted in the relationship and if it isn't meant to be then it isn't going to be. But even knowing that doesn't take away the sting. I don't think you should look too hard for something to take away the sting though, because when you think about it what would make a good time good without a bad time as a frame of reference. If all there was were good times then they would just be the ok times.
I'm sorry that I'm no professional writer and that none of this flows at all. I'm sorry that its just going to be a struggle for you to read through this and stay focused. I'm sorry that you have to put on an act around other people so they don't worry about you, and I'm sorry for your pain. But it will get better. I'd like to offer myself as a listener if you feel like you need someone to talk to. But I'm sure you've got other people who have offered and you would feel more comfortable talking to. I'm sure you can get in touch if you do want to talk though, and I'll listen.
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I mean it. I might not be able to offer you a long reply back in return, but I hope you know that I mean these few words and that I really, honestly, appreciate the friendship and the ear you've offered me. Chances are you'll be getting a text from me one of these nights and I might make you keep true on that offer.
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