Marriage
Click to viewMy advice to you is to get married. If you find a good wife, you'll be happy; if not, you'll become a philosopher. - Socrates
I was thinking, if and when I get married I would probably be a push over to what my wife to be would want in a wedding. This is probably due to the fact that I have not really thought about it that much. I mean, I have been to a few weddings and I am familiar with what is suppose to go on, but I have not really imagined what it would be like if it was my own.
This is a rare topic for me to address, I am not even sure why I am thinking about it. It does, however, merit some thought. I do envision there would be a certain minimum that I would expect though. It must be that planner in me, I cannot let everything fly into the wind or surrounding thought... of course, it could just be ego as well in that I need to involve myself at least to some level... in reality though, I do want it to be a special day for both of us... plus a surprise or two would be in order. Shhh, don't let her know!
Maybe it is a subconscious thing as to why I don't normally think about it. If you know me or ask any of my close friends, they know that I spend a lot of time thinking and planning things once I am committed to something. How can I commit so much thought and time to something that may not happen. I am reminded of the "what if" scenario and my advice about that whole thing... which is mostly not to worry too much about it.
Believe me, I am a bit far off to getting there from where I am now. As my time on this Earth approaches another decade I sometimes think there is less and less of a chance in finding the one. What would be a big shame is if I have already met her and I missed my chance, but if she is yet to be found I need to keep looking, either way, why is she eluding me so? Of course... i suppose she might be saying the same thing about me.. doh!