wtf?!
Okay, so, I am now in an official relationship with the Date Guy (better name to come). He's been nothing but sweet to me. He plans and executes dates and does not complain. He brought me a freaking huge bouquet of flowers on Valentine's. He's awesome.
Granted, we don't know each other terribly well, but isn't that the point of a new relationship? I think that in terms of life goals and general philosophies, we have a lot in common. In terms of interests...not too much. But that's not really what makes or breaks a relationship.
Anyway. I told TGG about it before it went all Facebook official because I was trying to be as not-cruel as possible. At first, he was great about it, then kind of a jerk, and now...
He literally begged me for an hour on the phone tonight to take him back.
HELP.
I'm so torn. On one hand, there's a sweet guy who's been great to me. I don't know him very well, and things might not work out down the road, but he makes me happy. On the other hand, there's a guy that I know I can be very happy with, but who has also broken my heart TWICE. I just can't deal with this. WHY WHY WHY WHY WHY????
Granted, we don't know each other terribly well, but isn't that the point of a new relationship? I think that in terms of life goals and general philosophies, we have a lot in common. In terms of interests...not too much. But that's not really what makes or breaks a relationship.
Anyway. I told TGG about it before it went all Facebook official because I was trying to be as not-cruel as possible. At first, he was great about it, then kind of a jerk, and now...
He literally begged me for an hour on the phone tonight to take him back.
HELP.
I'm so torn. On one hand, there's a sweet guy who's been great to me. I don't know him very well, and things might not work out down the road, but he makes me happy. On the other hand, there's a guy that I know I can be very happy with, but who has also broken my heart TWICE. I just can't deal with this. WHY WHY WHY WHY WHY????