Oow baby...

[iflie]

From I didn't know I was pregnant:

"Amazingly without any drugs D gives birth vaginally..."Myeah, human females have been giving birth for aprox. 100.000 years and suddenly it doesn't happen without drugs!? Though I have heard American programs claim similar things, how amazing it is that a woman would give birth without medical attention. (Maybe

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[iflie]

You've never seen De Bevalling!? It was on for years and seemed unavoidable when zapping. Pretty informative and raw. But yeah maybe for some people it's better not to know, hehe.

And yes home birth is perfectly natural. The mother being relaxed is the most important thing in having the most natural progression of the birth.

There was another quote from the show I heard this morning where it was a doctor commenting how much a miracle it was that a healthy baby was born without any medical intervention because the chances that happened were very slim.

She must have been a total moron because those statistics are about women on drugs and alcoholics who don't bother going to the doctor when they get pregnant. An ultrasound and a doctor feeling your belly and measuring your fetus doesn't make you have a healthy pregnancy and baby. The magical doctor with his health stare removing your babies fifth arm via ultrasound. Nifty.

I think I'd like a waterbirth...at the hospital. With a husband to shout abuse at and punch and have him rub my back against the pain. Classic, lol.

~Iflie

[thecaretaker]

Nope, zapped past it always... not my kind of show really.

And people in the past of course have never given birth without healthcare. how does she think her forefathers (or mothers in this case) gave birth?

Shouting and punching.. hmm.. I can give backrubs :p

[iflie]

I'm sure those doctors and in fact heaps of people in the US think the rest of the world lives in primitive mud huts and that most babies die if there isn't a doctor sticking you with needles while you give birth.

But they even take medication against the common cold, maybe they think that's lethal too because I've never heard people complain so much about colds. It's like they have a bad flu.

I don't think my punching would be very impressive and my swearing is more funny than impressive. But I'm sure I'd have valid arguments as to why the guy will never be allowed to lay a hand on me again and how it's all his fault...I'm good at that, hehe.

It's a good thing I'm trying to avoid the whole thing, the man would have to be seriously committed because I will blame him for every bout of nausea, missed sleep, pregnancy craving (and will send him out to get it) and whatever else will happen to me. And THEN there's the monstermom thing.

Neh, I'd prefer to be a somewhat nice childfree sub.

~Iflie

[thecaretaker]

You mean we don't live in mud?

I've not taken any medication, apart from my cholesterol medicine, except two ibuprofen when I was having a toothache earlier this year, in over 12 years. No vitamin supplements or anything. If you eat healthy, you don't need supplements. If you're in pain, it means your body is trying to tell you something, don't subdue it with medication (apart from period pains, which I don't suffer from, being male and all)

He will be at least partly to blame for you missing sleep, morning sickness etc.

Monster mom? Should I be scared?

I prefer a nice child free sub. :p

[iflie]

I don't so much live in mud as I live in cathair...

Hm I take my antihistamines when I need them so once or twice a year. Paracetamol when I'm cramping but a hot water bottle is actually more important there so I guess I could go without them. Vitamin pills though, quite important for me. I don't get out much so I at least need the extra vitamin D, especially with my skin having some sun protection. And while normally a very varied healthy diet contains everything you need who eats fatty fish a few times a week? And enough greens?

Also the vitamin and mineral content of the foods we grow has gone way down since we started mass producing. Both meat and vegetables have gone way down in value to our bodies. So what used to be true, both the wisdom as the nutritional data are obsolete.

And you only have to worry about me being a monstermom if you impregnate me or in any way assume a daddy role over my kids or occasionally my cat hehe. I get very protective and have no sense of flexibility when it comes to weak things I'm responsible for and probably would take every little thing too seriously. (exampl:you gave him a piece of your raw steak!? WTF *thunderclouds gather*)

I'd prefer to stay one but not yet enough to have my tubes tied or anything like that, so I guess there is still wiggleroom.

~Iflie

[thecaretaker]

But which is worse?

Warm hands do the trick too when you don't have a water bottle present, or so I learned :p

That's true.. but I still prefer not taking any supplements and stuff..

I'll let you take care of the cats then :p

Wiggleroom? Not tied down tight enough?

And now I'm off to England for the weekend

[iflie]

Well, mud doesn't cuddle and makes me go awwwwwww.

For many women the touch of their guy helps a lot with removing the cramping pain, something to do with hormones. I hope to try that out one day, I also have a strong urge to want to be snuggled that first painful period day so the right guy would be the perfect hotwaterbottle. Humans are about 90% water anyways hehe.

You can always buy biological foods, they are pretty good and getting cheaper.

Well I'm sure I wont be that possessive over the poopiescooping. *nodnod*

And well wiggleroom is good, makes you able to have the illusion of struggle right? If I happened to get suddenly totally healthy I might change my mind about having kids, or I could just have one by accident...or God gets naughty again.

Have a good time in England...and take pics, there has been a lack of those lately. You work too much.

~Iflie

[thecaretaker]

I started this reply yesterday at the airport on my phone, but I accidentally deleted it before posting. Damn phone with keys too close together and a 'back' function which, when you go forward again forgets all the words you had just typed. So now I'm in England on my laptop.

But mud also comes without sharp nails.

I buy most of my veggies at the open/farmers market on saturday anyway. just for the idea of healthy, instead of the perfectly arranged, prepacked, spotless stuff at the supermarket.

That's the good thing about cats. Give them a place to poop, and they will do it there. Makes for much easier cleaning than with dogs.

A bit of wiggleroom is good in some cases.

Same here, if I'd get healthy I might consider kids. I love kids, but don't really want my own. My sister once said she'd see me ending up dating single mom, because I do love kids. I'm good with them. My mother thinks I made a wrong choice with mechanical engineering and should have gone into childcare or something.

I am already having a good time and pictures will be taken. And I still have my Greece pictures to go over and post, which I will if I ever get the time. Yes, I work too much.

[iflie]

Ahh Grover, that's been ages. My favorite was cookiemonster though...obviously.

I hate that accidentally delete thing, my second tries are never as good.

And hey what's wrong with a nice set of nails, hehe.

These days you end up chasing dogs with a pooperscooper too but with the little plastic bag you also have to really feel the poop. With cats that's less so.

At the moment mine does his business outside and I've seen him dig really deep holes and then cover his stuff well. You'd hardly know he'd been there. When he uses the littertray inside I just wait until I can just remove the whole bag in one go, so no scooping.

Adoption is always another option when you have health issues in your genes. I wouldn't care if they are mine or someone elses as long as I can deal with the efforts. While I like kids I'm not really into running after them much.

And hey there are lots of single moms and you'd have less competition. But it's easy to be mistaken for a creep if you stand around schoolyards waiting to hit on them *grin

~Iflie

[thecaretaker]

Why would it be obvious cookiemonster was your favorite?

Nothing wrong with a nice set of nails.. on the right kind of kitten.

I do the same with my cat. Just change it once a week, instead of scoop it out every day as you actually should. Easier that way.

Adoption is always and option, but at the moment I'm happy enough on my own with my cat :p

As for picking up women, I have enough trouble picking up single women, let alone single moms :p. A few months ago a random one approached me though, asking me to take pictures of her son :p.

[iflie]

Let's see, blue idiot or a happy blue monster who always gets cookies and creates a sort of cookiespray.

I always go for the food related ones.

If the litterbox gets too dirty the cat will let you know, mine is okay with about once a week usually as he'll mainly use it at night.

I'm only sure that I'll at least adopt more cats in my lifetime. Right now one is enough coupled with the visitors. Mickey is going to the vet monday and i'm hoping he doesn't need a bathing cure for his skin because he's going to fight hard and he bites.

Money wise too an old cat can get expensive, so more would get risky.

Hm have you tried fetlife yet? There are quite a few dutch people.

~Iflie

[thecaretaker]

I figured you more a blue idiot person :p

Missy is the same.

You're the second person suggesting I join fetlife today. Maybe I should, though I'm not actively searching for a single mom.

[iflie]

I have told you about my brother right? So I was basically programmed from birth to be fed up by idiocy, Grover never worked for me as funny.

Well hehe, fetlife is filled with people but kids are generally not mentioned. You never know what type of sub you may run into though. As it's not a site specifically for dating the number of men messaging with their penis in hand is a bit lower than in other more specific places like Collarme.

Not that you as a guy would notice that as much but you can kind of meet people via posting on threads.

~Iflie

[thecaretaker]

I was the oldest, so I could still like Grover. I have a fondness for odd characters. Grover, Gonzo etc.

It turns out I was already a member when I tried to join this morning. Must have been quite some time ago since I had forgotten all about it. I try to keep my dick in handedness to minimum. At least on first contact :p

We'll see if I'll meet anyone interesting. There were not that many people from Overijssel on there...

[iflie]

My love was for the more negativly slanted chacters. Oscar in the garbage for example. In some ways I've never really changed my tastes.

I'm also on fetlife as Iflie but I have kept my profile empty to keep the messages from men away. (almost worked) And I haven't posted.

~Iflie

[thecaretaker]

Oscar was a nice enough character, but too needy for me. I prefered the individuals like Ernie and The Swedish Chef :p

I figured you were on fetlife so I looked you up and added you. tcc, if you want to add me :p