Message received and, erm...
My OH gave me a book this morning.
I think maybe he is trying to tell me something... it's called 'How To Write A Novel'.
I hope that what he is trying to tell me is that he is fully supportive of my dabblings in erotic fiction and is giving me a useful resource that will help to improve my writing skills... and not that he thinks I'm wasting my time here and should be doing 'serious' writing instead!
Either way I hope it will be useful.
If not, I hope it will at least give me lots of advice I can disagree with (I'm good at that - it's a fine family tradition).
And if all else fails, perhaps it will give me some more material for my faltering narrative in this journal!