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[ideal324]

Hey guys, I am sure you guys probably don't care but sorry for not writing anything lately but I have been busy with a whole bunch of shite. There is just so much crap I have to do it is seriously pissin me off. Also it doesn't help that I can't find a girl. I just want someone to fill the void for a little while

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[misplaced_nyer]

I'm not interested cus I've already got a beau. =P
I'm sure girls like you, but nobody wants to be the rebound girl, you know? And with the history you and Angie had - you two have been off and on since, what, Freshmen year? - that's bound to be what they'd see themselves as.
Maybe you can just find yourself a good friend with benefits?
...I say that in the best way possible...

[ideal324]

I may want a rebound girl right now but that doesn't mean that I am not open to the option of finding someone special to be with. I just want someone to fill the void and maybe be a little bit more than a rebound. I want S.O.S.

[ideal324]

and the person I thought was special doesn't like me so whatever.

[misplaced_nyer]

I understand that, and I'm not saying that you're just gonna go from chick to chick. I'm just saying that that's probably how girls would see it at this point - that's how I would see it anyway.
You say that nobody is interested in you - are you interested in anybody? If you are, what's the harm in flirting a bit, maybe going on a group date thing, asking to the movies - you know, the usual progression into "dating territory."
And don't say you're shy.
I wouldn't believe that for a second. =)

[ideal324]

when it comes to the opposite sex and dating and that whole shebang I am very shy. I hate rejection and because of that I am scared to straight tell someone I like them or ask them on a date. I asked a girl out but she had to do something. blah. irkness. I hate rejection so much. total awkwardness.

[ideal324]

I guess I am other not attractive physically or I just have a really shitty personality.

[misplaced_nyer]

Bullshit, Steven. Seriously. I'm not saying "oh dang, you're so hot, I wanna rape you" but you're not bad looking. And as far as personality goes - I don't see anything wrong with it. As far as I'm concerned you're a nice guy with a good sense of humor. The worst personality I see is when you're in ROTC, but hell - that's part of your job. Someone screws up, you make sure they don't screw up again. And if that is the only way people see you, then they can't claim to really know you.
And, as incredibly middle school as this sounds, you can always casually put out there that you're looking for someone, or you wish you had somebody. Don't get mopey and depress everyone about it - but let it be known that you're looking. You might be surprised on who picks up on it.
...Just don't ask your friend to ask her if she's interested. Not unless they're good at being un-obvious.

[ideal324]

thanks christine. I am glad at least someone understands. I guess your right but if you ask anyone who hangs around me I haven't been getting mopey if anything I have been acting happier or atleast forcing myself to. Thanks for the input.