People have been trying and trying to help, offering advice and giving insights, but all you ever do is shrug them off and then be all "please help me." We have been trying to help you, you just aren't taking it. Do you even know anyone on your buddy list? Have you even thought to talk to them and help them with THEIR issues? Maybe no one is helping you because you can't help yourself, you can't help them, and you absolutely refuse to take help when it is offered to you. People can only help so much when all they get in return is rudeness and selfishness. You make everyone feel like their advice isn't good enough for you, so people end up just not giving any advice at all.
I'm sure people would try to help a lot more if you didn't belittle their opinions so much. From what I've seen on your journal, everyone who offered advice was trying to be very tactful and nice and tried to help you get better. But getting better is "So hard in your eyes." How in the world can trying to get better be any harder than what you are going through now? It is your fault that your life sucks now. You make your life hard, and you make everyone else's lives hard too that try to help you. Honestly, telling the only online friends you have to go fuck themselves.
Soon, you are going to end up with no friends at all.
Also, you will suffer more and more as you continue to desperately grasp at this unrequited love.
You better snap into reality real quick before your life will be so far in the gutter that you wouldn't be able to make it better if you tried. Once you have a baby, it will be much much harder for you to find any guy who would be willing to want to deal with that. Ah but wait, you only want the boy you never met before? Right. Good luck with that path. You will only make yourself feel like shit and everyone around you to feel like shit. But I'm sure you don't care how you make other people feel as long as you get what you need, eh?
Change doesn't come from outside, it comes from within. Stop expecting everyone else to make your life good and then getting mad at them when your doesn't suddenly get all nice.
IAWTC it seems like you and I are the only ones who took the "tough love" approach. This girl is immature and needs to stop whining and join the adult ranks where you take responsibility for your actions and stop blaming others.
I'm sure people would try to help a lot more if you didn't belittle their opinions so much. From what I've seen on your journal, everyone who offered advice was trying to be very tactful and nice and tried to help you get better. But getting better is "So hard in your eyes." How in the world can trying to get better be any harder than what you are going through now? It is your fault that your life sucks now. You make your life hard, and you make everyone else's lives hard too that try to help you. Honestly, telling the only online friends you have to go fuck themselves.
Soon, you are going to end up with no friends at all.
Also, you will suffer more and more as you continue to desperately grasp at this unrequited love.
You better snap into reality real quick before your life will be so far in the gutter that you wouldn't be able to make it better if you tried. Once you have a baby, it will be much much harder for you to find any guy who would be willing to want to deal with that. Ah but wait, you only want the boy you never met before? Right. Good luck with that path. You will only make yourself feel like shit and everyone around you to feel like shit. But I'm sure you don't care how you make other people feel as long as you get what you need, eh?
Change doesn't come from outside, it comes from within. Stop expecting everyone else to make your life good and then getting mad at them when your doesn't suddenly get all nice.
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