My mom makes me crazy & Writer's Block: Change It Up
So, to start out with something pleasent - I bought some adorable icons last month. :D THey were super cheap, and I love them!
Here's Kessen, Inde, Squiz, & Suni:
&
I need to alter the one of the rats a bit, cause those are not dumbo ears, but still, I think they're great! Espicially the one of Inde. He's a naughty dog. XD Also, the little hairs coming out of Kessen's ears are made of win and awesome.
I was supposed to go take my mom grocery shopping yesterday, but, surprise surprise, she canceled on me. We got into a huge fight heated discussion over how much she is pissing me the fuck off too. Fun times! I'm not a morning person at all and I always go to her house around 1ish - I was talking to her on the evening of the 1st, and reminded/confirmed that I was coming, but after a while, before I had reiterated my standard time frame, my phone was going dead so I asked if I could call her back the next day. Unfortunately I had a sinus head ache and slept most of the day, so didn't get around to calling her back till about 8pm, and she freaked THE FUCK OUT. She told me how I was expecting her to "jump through hoops" by not confirming the time, and how she waited all day and was so stressed out and didn't shower/get ready, and now how she can't go. She said she just assumed that I just didn't call her earlier because I wanted to make her miserable so she would cancel. Yeah, this is how my loving mother thinks of me when I help her. Then she tried to turn it on me about how I never come, and when I said yeah, because you've canceled/rescheduled on me the last SIX times, she said that was my fault too, because "you don't know how many times I've canceled because of something small you said in conversation that made me feel like you didn't want to come." Well, no shit. I don't bitch about it, but it's just something that needs to be done, like taking a crap or going to the dentist. Driving an hour one way, through 100 degree temps, 5ft of snow, rain, or even a beautiful fuckin' day to load her up, cart her around, carry all her grocery for her, bring them up to her apartment, but them all away, take out her trash, and listen to her bitch the whole day is not exactly like going to an amusement park or anything, but I don't outwardly bitch, and I do it. But that's not good enough. SO, whatever. I'm not feeling guilty, this is on her. She knew the day, knew the approximate time (I did apologize for not calling earlier) and all she had to do was take a damned bath and be ready. I didn't ask her to do anything hard. Here's and idea too - if she *needed* to shower, how about your just take a damned shower? Regardless of if someone is coming over, or if you need to leave the house - shower! FFS.
Also, when I was talking to that night her before my phone died, she was telling me all about this story she saw on the news about a man that cheated on his GF who was a dentist, and after they broke up, he went back to her for a toothache, and she pulled ALL his teeth. My mom seemed to think this was so funny and awesome, and I guess totally ok. Now, don;'t get me wrong, I'm a pretty jaded individual myself, and cheating/trust is one of my biggest issues, but I grew up with Mom continuously harping about vindictive, twisted people (mostly my Gram), but now, that's funny. Yes, the dude was a douche, and an asshole, but he lost all his fucking teeth. HIS TEETH. That is some serious shit right there. She pretty much told me I was a stuck up prude because I didn't think it was funny. Well, ok then. Sorry I'm not an asshole and laugh at other people's misfortune.
Seriously, wtf is wrong with her???
Here's Kessen, Inde, Squiz, & Suni:
&
I need to alter the one of the rats a bit, cause those are not dumbo ears, but still, I think they're great! Espicially the one of Inde. He's a naughty dog. XD Also, the little hairs coming out of Kessen's ears are made of win and awesome.
I was supposed to go take my mom grocery shopping yesterday, but, surprise surprise, she canceled on me. We got into a huge fight heated discussion over how much she is pissing me the fuck off too. Fun times! I'm not a morning person at all and I always go to her house around 1ish - I was talking to her on the evening of the 1st, and reminded/confirmed that I was coming, but after a while, before I had reiterated my standard time frame, my phone was going dead so I asked if I could call her back the next day. Unfortunately I had a sinus head ache and slept most of the day, so didn't get around to calling her back till about 8pm, and she freaked THE FUCK OUT. She told me how I was expecting her to "jump through hoops" by not confirming the time, and how she waited all day and was so stressed out and didn't shower/get ready, and now how she can't go. She said she just assumed that I just didn't call her earlier because I wanted to make her miserable so she would cancel. Yeah, this is how my loving mother thinks of me when I help her. Then she tried to turn it on me about how I never come, and when I said yeah, because you've canceled/rescheduled on me the last SIX times, she said that was my fault too, because "you don't know how many times I've canceled because of something small you said in conversation that made me feel like you didn't want to come." Well, no shit. I don't bitch about it, but it's just something that needs to be done, like taking a crap or going to the dentist. Driving an hour one way, through 100 degree temps, 5ft of snow, rain, or even a beautiful fuckin' day to load her up, cart her around, carry all her grocery for her, bring them up to her apartment, but them all away, take out her trash, and listen to her bitch the whole day is not exactly like going to an amusement park or anything, but I don't outwardly bitch, and I do it. But that's not good enough. SO, whatever. I'm not feeling guilty, this is on her. She knew the day, knew the approximate time (I did apologize for not calling earlier) and all she had to do was take a damned bath and be ready. I didn't ask her to do anything hard. Here's and idea too - if she *needed* to shower, how about your just take a damned shower? Regardless of if someone is coming over, or if you need to leave the house - shower! FFS.
Also, when I was talking to that night her before my phone died, she was telling me all about this story she saw on the news about a man that cheated on his GF who was a dentist, and after they broke up, he went back to her for a toothache, and she pulled ALL his teeth. My mom seemed to think this was so funny and awesome, and I guess totally ok. Now, don;'t get me wrong, I'm a pretty jaded individual myself, and cheating/trust is one of my biggest issues, but I grew up with Mom continuously harping about vindictive, twisted people (mostly my Gram), but now, that's funny. Yes, the dude was a douche, and an asshole, but he lost all his fucking teeth. HIS TEETH. That is some serious shit right there. She pretty much told me I was a stuck up prude because I didn't think it was funny. Well, ok then. Sorry I'm not an asshole and laugh at other people's misfortune.
Seriously, wtf is wrong with her???