Random thoughts on the wedding I am unlikely to have.
No, I am not negatively thinking... rather I am trying to use reverse psychology on myself. Really. Stop looking at me like that.
(clears throat) Moving on...
OK, for those who know me, you know that for the most part I am content to let my wedding be my fiance's show. Women plan this day from the time they learn about it... I ain't going to be too picky.
A few things I would like to incorporate though.
First, I want my wedding band to be made of either platinum or steel. Platinum, in addition to being a very precious metal, can be forged to be almost indestructible. And steel, while not being all that precious, is hard to alter.
Obsessed with hard metals? Yeah. Why?
Well, when I tell my wife as she give me my ring that the ring will break under pressure before my faithfulness to her will... well, I want it to really mean something. Gold, for all its flash and bling, is pretty damn malleable. My faith to her will not be, so I kinda need a harder metal.
That and gold isn't my color, hehe.
Ok, another element I want to throw in is from Hebrew wedding tradition. I want to shatter a glass. The rabbi normally follows this with words to the effect that may the glass now shattered be reassembled before you are torn asunder.
Noticing a theme yet?
Hm... one last thing. Keep it smallish. I don't want everyone we ever knew there... just the people that really matter.