Stuck between 2 people. =[

[iateafetusonce]

I really need some advice. Recently i've been kind of talking to the real father (frank) of my baby. A couple of weeks ago, me and dave were babysitting his brother and sister, and I decided to get onto yahoo to check my mail, and of course knowing my shitty luck, Frank IMs me. Dave knew it was him and was pretty pissed, but I told him I just

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[anonymous]

Ok, this will be an outsiders opinion on your current situation. I dont know either man but I can assure you that Dave is the right choice. Your own entry gives you the answer. "All we did was get drunk and stoned, and have sex" you want to be with a guy who only wants to get you fucked up then fuck you up? 3 months of that fun then the fuck you up lead to the knock you up and he split, the fun was over for him and when it came to being a man to step up to his duties as a father, he flaked out. That is not the kind of man you want in your life. Then comments about dave being a father and stepping up, in your own words he is "completely PERFECT" he is there for you to support you and your child. He is, from what i can tell, a great man and a great father. Now that frank is back in your life, he is "in love" with you, but in my own humble opinion, he just wants to have the kid. But if you are still confused, just remember the babies name and who he is named after. Dave, despite what DNA says, is the father of that baby and the right choice. And as far as cutting goes, it might make you feel better for awhile, but then when the scars arrive it will be a permanent reminder of a temporary feeling. I wish you the best in your situation, i hope i have shed some light on the issue.

[iateafetusonce]

This comment is for everyone who responded to my entry. Thank you so much for your advice, and all of it I took in. I now realise, the man who I am destined to be with, and that's Dave. Frank never was their for me, and sure as hell didn't seem like he cared to much about me until now. Maybe he was scared or whatever, but the point is, is that he didn't show me anything. Dave stuck it out with me. Through the hard times and the good. I defiently think that staying with Dave is the best thing for me. Thanx once again. I'm sure you all have saved me from a lot of regret, heartache and grief!! =]