You, like all of the other little girls do not know what love it. Do not for one second think that you know, or Master English Major Greg knows. You sound like you're paraphrasing some book. You sound like you're getting ideas for your life from some trashy Romance Novel. Granted, I don't read...So I don't have these kind of warped ideas of love. "Connecting on another level" Do you know how completely funny in a bad sense that sounds? It's something that a mommy and daddy teaches their 3 year old when they first hear someone mention the word. "Ok little one, this is how I'll explain it to you." That's a crock of shit. And I don't play God. I'm not arranging anything. They did that in 16th Century France. Not here. I'm simply telling you what is fucked up in your thought process. This is the clincher, ready? No, I don't know any specifics about your relationship with Greg. I don't have to. I know you. And I know how you act when you're with different people. I know how you act once you've seen him, how you treat other people once you've been with him. This is what I do know, and that is what I base all of my judgments on. Not just for you, for anyone that I've ever given my opinions to. See, you are right. I don't know him. Maybe the several times that he's been in my house, he could have had a conversation with me. That's not so bad is it? To attempt to have a conversation with the brother of someone whom you "love"? Especially if they know that I'm protective of my sister. That never happened. I don't care if you're on the phone with him, how often you talk to him, anything. You're in Boston. Do Boston-ish things. LISTEN, YOU CANT HAVE A RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE THAT LIVES 1000 MILES AWAY. It does not exist. It is not possible. Regardless of if you allow yourselves to see other people, or whatever the guidelines for your relationship are....if that is the case, it's not a real relationship anyway. If you have to make stipulations, set rules, it's not a fucking relationship. It's mythical. It's something that used to be. Let it stay there in the past. Move on. I'm not saying you have to make decisions based on me. I'm not saying that you have to make decisions that are only acceptable to me. But I will say this, that if it is not acceptable, or I disagree in any way, I'll be the first person, as I should, to confront you about it and let you know in the most loving and caring manner. I'm also very disappointed you didn't get my Shakespeare joke. I thought it was almost as funny as you calling me a homosexual douche-bag Senator from Mass. Don't ever think that I don't have information. I see how you react when you are with different people. And I know you. That is the basis for my opinion. I think all of those baked-beans and harsh accents have penetrated your brain, making it mushy and definitely not funny. At least make me laugh if I'm going to sit here and take the time out of my busy slutting schedule to read your non-pithy statement.
First of all, do not tell me that I don't know what love is. I'm not a little girl anymore Michael, I've grown up some. And don't try to knock Greg down for his major, he knows what he wants in life, and that's respectable. And he did have conversations with you, or at least tried to. You're not the easiest person to have a conversation with, you know, especially to one who's seeing me. Need I remind you of my freshman year, when you and Bryan answered the door in suits when Jimmy came to pick me up for the dance? Yea, you guys intimidate the hell out of people. I wouldn't want to fuckin talk to you.
And it is possible to have a relationship with someone 1000 miles away, how do you think I've kept up all my friendships? My best friends are still my best friends, and I still talk to all of my close friends from back home. So don't say it's not possible, it is, but it's hard. And since you don't know anything about the situation at ALL, you should probably know that we're currently not in a long distance relationship where we're only allowed to see each other. We're close friends, just as MaryBeth and I are, just like Gloria and I are, just like I am with anyone else back home. I want to see them as much as possible, and care a lot about them. And that's bullshit about you'll tell me in the most "loving and caring manner." My asshole. If you keep giving your opinions like an ass, why should I consider them? Just because you know me, doesn't mean you know about my relationships. I've changed a lot since we both lived in the same house. You can play denial all you want, and pretend I am still the same naive little girl as I was 3 years ago. But I'm not. You have not been around me for more than like a week or two at a time.
I can make my own decisions. I am not sacrificing any fun or meeting people or anything in boston for gregory. You can say whatever you want about my relationships, but don't think I'm going to take any of it to heart. Because I know whats best for myself better than you do.
1. he's never had a conversation with me. regardless of how hard you or anyone thinks it is, it's necessary if he wants to be with you, i'm gonna have to not want to end someone. 2. friendships will generally last over long distances, i never said anything about that. a relationship, or a so-called loving relationship will not and cannot last. fact. accept it. 3. you still are a little girl. until you start paying for yourself to live in your own apartment like i do, until you start paying for all of your meals like i do, all of your things you need in life like i do, you will be a little girl. 4. do not think that because i am not in boston monitoring you, that i don't know you. i know you more than anyone else in this entire world, and as such, i think that i would know what is best for you over someone's opinion, like greg who just met you this summer. or whenever. you forget that 18 years is a little longer than not even 1.
if you want to make your own decisions, start making informed adult decisions, and not fairy tale ones. not make-believe. none of your relationships have lasted. because you have this fairy tale image. i didn't say i know what is better for you than you do, but being in your situation, i can say that you are blinded by several things, and i'm here to help you open up your eyes.
1. He has talked to you. Maybe not a full conversation, but he has talked to you and been civil. 2. Greg is more than just some relationship. He is more than a friend. If friendships can last, this can too, becaus he IS a friend. 3. Stop referring to me as a little girl. You want to talk about little girls? How bout the ones you sleep with. Jackass. 4. I'm not thinking that you don't "know" me. I'm saying that you don't know as much about me as you THINK you do. I know you know me, asshole, you're my fucking brother. You should by now. But don't think that Greg doesn't "know" me, because I can have conversations with him that I can't have with you. For various reasons. One being that you're an asshole, and he's not.
None of my relationships have lasted mainly because I don't want them to. No one has ever dumped me, and I cry about it for weeks and weeks. Let's not talk about who has a better track record here. I'm an immensely realistic person, anyone who knows me will tell you that. Oh, and by the way, money does not equal happiness, contrary to your belief. It doesn't hurt any, but that's why I'm going to be an engineer and fucking own your life. I'm going to have enough money for 5 middle class families to live happily. Don't start about that.
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And it is possible to have a relationship with someone 1000 miles away, how do you think I've kept up all my friendships? My best friends are still my best friends, and I still talk to all of my close friends from back home. So don't say it's not possible, it is, but it's hard. And since you don't know anything about the situation at ALL, you should probably know that we're currently not in a long distance relationship where we're only allowed to see each other. We're close friends, just as MaryBeth and I are, just like Gloria and I are, just like I am with anyone else back home. I want to see them as much as possible, and care a lot about them. And that's bullshit about you'll tell me in the most "loving and caring manner." My asshole. If you keep giving your opinions like an ass, why should I consider them? Just because you know me, doesn't mean you know about my relationships. I've changed a lot since we both lived in the same house. You can play denial all you want, and pretend I am still the same naive little girl as I was 3 years ago. But I'm not. You have not been around me for more than like a week or two at a time.
I can make my own decisions. I am not sacrificing any fun or meeting people or anything in boston for gregory. You can say whatever you want about my relationships, but don't think I'm going to take any of it to heart. Because I know whats best for myself better than you do.
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2. friendships will generally last over long distances, i never said anything about that. a relationship, or a so-called loving relationship will not and cannot last. fact. accept it.
3. you still are a little girl. until you start paying for yourself to live in your own apartment like i do, until you start paying for all of your meals like i do, all of your things you need in life like i do, you will be a little girl.
4. do not think that because i am not in boston monitoring you, that i don't know you. i know you more than anyone else in this entire world, and as such, i think that i would know what is best for you over someone's opinion, like greg who just met you this summer. or whenever. you forget that 18 years is a little longer than not even 1.
if you want to make your own decisions, start making informed adult decisions, and not fairy tale ones. not make-believe. none of your relationships have lasted. because you have this fairy tale image. i didn't say i know what is better for you than you do, but being in your situation, i can say that you are blinded by several things, and i'm here to help you open up your eyes.
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2. Greg is more than just some relationship. He is more than a friend. If friendships can last, this can too, becaus he IS a friend.
3. Stop referring to me as a little girl. You want to talk about little girls? How bout the ones you sleep with. Jackass.
4. I'm not thinking that you don't "know" me. I'm saying that you don't know as much about me as you THINK you do. I know you know me, asshole, you're my fucking brother. You should by now. But don't think that Greg doesn't "know" me, because I can have conversations with him that I can't have with you. For various reasons. One being that you're an asshole, and he's not.
None of my relationships have lasted mainly because I don't want them to. No one has ever dumped me, and I cry about it for weeks and weeks. Let's not talk about who has a better track record here. I'm an immensely realistic person, anyone who knows me will tell you that. Oh, and by the way, money does not equal happiness, contrary to your belief. It doesn't hurt any, but that's why I'm going to be an engineer and fucking own your life. I'm going to have enough money for 5 middle class families to live happily. Don't start about that.
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