Finally, a love theory to promote intelligent dating by explaining love using simple math equations. Use it to solve your love problems!
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ASSUMPTIONS OF LOVE ECONOMICS
1. People are rational decision makers and are able to add up the benefits and costs of being in love.
2. Commitment is an insignificant variable.
3. Friendship and companionship are the same.
4. People's perceptions are not influenced by underlying mental illnesses.
5. Sex and commitment are the only differences between friendship and love. However, today people can have sex with strangers and friends, without being in love.
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CORE VARIABLES OF LOVE ECONOMICS
The Love Economic Model assumes people fall in love because the total benefit of being in love outweighs the total cost of being in love. So the probability of falling in love is related to your perception of the probability of net benefit resulting from being in love. Mathematically, the Model is written as:
Probability of Love = Probability of (Net Benefit of Being in Love, Emotional Availability, Past Love Experiences)
Net Benefit = Total Benefit - Total Cost
Total Benefit = friendship + fulfillment of sexual needs
Friendship = fulfillment of (emotional needs + entertainment needs + materialistic needs - sexual needs)
Emotional needs = esteem needs + social needs + spiritual needs + safety needs
Materialistic needs = primary needs + sexual needs + materialistic desires
Total Cost = cost of (search + rejection + research + maintenance + opportunity) + breakup risk
Search cost = your attractiveness + social networking skills + time cost + financial cost
Rejection cost = -(your self-esteem + frequency of past rejections)
Research cost = knowledge of self + diagnostic abilities + proximity
Maintenance cost = emotional cost + time cost to fulfill emotional, entertainment, materialistic needs + financial cost to fulfill emotional, entertainment, materialistic needs
Breakup risk = risk of being dumped + your breakup cost
Commitment = future net benefit - future net benefit from another love + current breakup cost
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THE RELATIONSHIP MODEL
This model assumes people fall in love because the total benefit of being in love outweighs the total cost of being in love. So the probability of falling in love is related to your perception of the probability of net benefit resulting from being in love. Mathematically, the Model is written as:
Your Love for Love Interest = Love Interest's Love for You
Your Love for Love Interest = Your Net Benefit of Being in Love, Your Emotional Availability, Your Past Love Experiences
Love Interest's Love for You = Love Interest's Net Benefit of Being in Love, Love Interest's Emotional Availability, Love Interest's Past Love Experiences
Once in love, you both work to maintain a state of equilibrium, where your love for lover is equal to your lover's love for you.
Your Love for Lover = Lover's Love for You
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Source:
http://www.solvedating.com/love-economics.html