...reflections...
This weekend I realized that there is something funny about people and death.....everytime someone dies wether or not they were young or old, or they were sick for a long time or it happens all suddenly and un expected, people all around say that it's not fair or it wasn't their time to go, they were to young, they had so much still left to do. Watch their youngest daughter graduate, dance with their daughters at their weddings spoil their grand children etc..... My question is, if it wasn't the right time for your loved one to go no matter the situation then when was the right time supposed to be? When would it have been fair? When would someone not have so much more to do? I don't understand that in a world full of the advertising of optimism and how great it is to be a happy wonderful person, why can't people look at the good? and see the happy memories and understand that people come and they go but the things that you are supposed to hold the closest to your heart are the good times and be thankful for the fact that you even had the pleasure of knowing the person...Think of all fo the people out there that never had the chance to know them and be happy you did. Instead of standing up in front of a group of people with hurting hearts and shouting and yelling about how it's not fair that your loved one was taken from you and pointing out how mad you are at God because he took them away, make the hurting hearts feel better by making them smile with a good memory and wonderful times. This world is a messed up place, do your part to make it not so bad for the people who lost the same person you lost instead of blaming it on God and refusing to accept it because it's unfair.... I wan't know who ever said fair was what it is all about? When has anything ever been fair in the first place? you have someone and then you don't. People always leave in one form or another, they graduate and go home or go to school somewhere else far away, people move out and move in they change and go places we don't want to follow them to. Sometimes its sad, sometimes it's for the better, sometimes it's to learn and grow as a person, and sometimes they never come back.....It's my belief that even though they leave they're always there in your heart and in your mind and in your soul. Every person that was put in your life was put there by some divine power or movement of the cosmos, weather they stick around or they go is not up to you and their is nothing anyone can do to change it. All I can say is what so many people have said before live it like you or they will leave tomorrow, dream big, and never let your head get in the way of your heart's desires.