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[i_luv_the_80s]

please let me kno on ur views of

1) sex before marraige

and

2) abortion

im very interested in abortion...im not gonna give my opinions on all this stuff on lj...if u really wanna talk to me about it...talk to me

*M*

Comments

I disagree with sn0conelady.

[zachacrombie]

Many people these days look at sex as a way to gain popularity. It's almost as if sex is encouraged. It's everywhere, from billboards, to Abercrombie magazines. To me, that is wrong.
Sex is about love, and nothing less. Sex should not be about religion. I understand the idea of staying pure, and wanting it to be beautiful and special, but who is to say an atheist doesn't have the same view?
Marriage is a legal issue, religion isn't. Back when Adam and Eve were around there was no such thing as a marriage license, there was no sense of government that could have officially declared them a married couple. Adam and Eve set a pretty bad example. Now you say, "well in god's eyes they were married." Maybe in a spiritual sense, god may have seen two people madly in love, and that's what he wanted, love, SEX IS ABOUT LOVE.
Having sex before marriage in no way, shows a lack of self control.
Sex before marriage is fine, as long as there is a mutual feeling of love.
Love is a feeling, not a belief.

Abortion is justified. I read a comment above that stated "I DONT CARE IF YOU WERE RAPED," I couldn't disagree enough with that comment. I guess you haven't ever been, or met anyone in that situation. It's almost like that saying, "Don't judge somebody until you have walked a mile in their shoes." I don't think you understand the emotional stress a person would have to go through, to have a baby she never wanted, with a man she never loved.
Abortion is not about a woman not wanting to gain weight, or getting stretch marks. Have you ever taken a second to think about financial situations? Many of us kids don't, we have parents here for us. Usually when a teenager becomes pregnant she loses a lot of respect from family, as well as the community, teen pregnancy is looked down upon. A woman working at Burger King, making $5.50 an hour does not make enough money to support a child. Also, Arizona has one of the highest teen pregnancy percentages. Teen Pregnancy leads to kids dropping out of school, do we really need any more uneducated people in this country?
There is always the idea of adoption. To me, adoption would be harder then abortion. A woman would bond, and become attached to the baby, and then have to give it up. Abortion is the dictionary is 1. Induced termination of pregnancy before the fetus can survive. That basically tells you that the fetus, or embryo is not developed, it is not dependant, and is not able to think or feel anything.

Have you ever killed a fly? If so, you are a hypocrite. A fly is more alive than an embryo.

Re: I disagree with sn0conelady.

[bestdeceptions2]

ZACH...me and syd sooooo agree with you about the sex b4 marriage thing!! and the Adam and Eve thing!! WOO HOO GO ZACH!